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Jersey Shortie

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Your boyfriend needs to grow up. 26 is young but he is acting like he is 18. :confused:

 

I think it's time for you to think about a boozy weekend away with your girls and just leave your phone at home.

 

i agree with half of this. You spending time with yoru gfs watching Jerry McGuire is not the same as him going to Vegas with his buddies. I say go out clubbing with some friends and don't call him even though you said you would. I doubt he would like it.

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What's wrong with what he is doing? He went off with his friends to Vegas for a fun boozy weekend gambling and checking out some skin (and in Vegas, you don't need to go to a strip joint to see enough T&A to last a lifetime - just watch the dealers and the drink girls). The dude called her a few times.

 

How does this make him 18 or immature?

 

I'd love to go to Vegas with my friends for a weekend - tons of fun. What makes me immature about that?

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Lauriebell82

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He called to tell me he was on his way home. He said he was just getting on the airplane and he is excited to see me. I can't wait to see him, I really miss him!

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Lauriebell82

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What's wrong with what he is doing? He went off with his friends to Vegas for a fun boozy weekend gambling and checking out some skin (and in Vegas, you don't need to go to a strip joint to see enough T&A to last a lifetime - just watch the dealers and the drink girls). The dude called her a few times.

 

How does this make him 18 or immature?

 

I'd love to go to Vegas with my friends for a weekend - tons of fun. What makes me immature about that?

 

What's T& A?

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What's T& A?

 

It could be abbreviated as B & B for boobs and buns, but then someone might think he was having a bed and breakfast at the strip club! :laugh: So T & A will have to do.

 

LB, I am glad he is on the way back. I am guessing he will give you a complete debriefing of his adventures in Sin City.

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I guess all the doubters and those who went OTT have been proven wrong and nothing happened, he had fun and he coming home back to the woman who has his heart strings! Laurie's devout faith and trust in her boyfriend has paid off and all is well.

 

The end.

 

The moral of the story is to not count the chooks before they have hatched!

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Jersey Shortie

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Actually, no one will ever know for sure if something actually did happen or not.

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Lauriebell82

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Actually, no one will ever know for sure if something actually did happen or not.

 

Oh geez. I know he didn't do anything because I trust him and I know he loves me. Plus, one of his friends is a mutual friend of ours, so I think he'd probably sock him if he saw my bf cheat on me.

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I just fail to see what the huge fuss was over in the first place. I don't think he was acting immature at all, here. He behaved himself and kept in contact with his girlfriend, and, considering that it was a bachelor party, I think that's entirely reasonable.

 

I'd be annoyed if I was trying to have a fun weekend with my guy friends on a trip such as Vegas, only to have my girlfriend miffed at me because I didn't call back every hour.

 

Also, odds are he didn't do anything bad while on his trip. Use Occam's Razor, here, guys. He was just havin' fun with his friends.

 

I'm glad you kept your cool though, Laurie -- that's definitely the best way to go about all this :D I hope you and your man have a nice reunion :)

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Lauriebell82

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I just fail to see what the huge fuss was over in the first place. I don't think he was acting immature at all, here. He behaved himself and kept in contact with his girlfriend, and, considering that it was a bachelor party, I think that's entirely reasonable.

 

I'd be annoyed if I was trying to have a fun weekend with my guy friends on a trip such as Vegas, only to have my girlfriend miffed at me because I didn't call back every hour.

 

Also, odds are he didn't do anything bad while on his trip. Use Occam's Razor, here, guys. He was just havin' fun with his friends.

 

I'm glad you kept your cool though, Laurie -- that's definitely the best way to go about all this :D I hope you and your man have a nice reunion :)

 

Thanks. I probably made a bigger deal out of this then I should have. Similar to a few responses, a few of my friends said I should be worried that he is going to Vegas. In reality, I didn't have anything to worry about all along. I am glad that I got my own time as well though. I sure wouldn't want to spend EVERY weekend apart, but it was good to get our own time. Thanks for the advice! :)

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Al_Bundy

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While she didn't say that outright, she did specifically tell him that she does not want him to go to a strip club, and his specific response was that he is going to "endulge his friend."

 

Meaning, if his friend wants to go, he will go along.

 

Then she should go to a male strip club. The "indulge his friend" comment is basically "I want to go get boobs in my face, but I'll blame it on my friend".

 

So if he is going to get hooters in his face, she should be able to slip a few dollar bills in some g-strings.

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Then she should go to a male strip club. The "indulge his friend" comment is basically "I want to go get boobs in my face, but I'll blame it on my friend".

 

So if he is going to get hooters in his face, she should be able to slip a few dollar bills in some g-strings.

 

I've never been a huge fan of strip clubs. I went to one, but it wasn't a male strip club. I just went with one my one friend to pick up one of her guy friends who was drunk and couldn't drive home.

 

I didn't see really what the appeal was, but maybe that's because naked girls don't interest me. Most likely my friends will want to take me to some male strip club for a bachelorette party. Im considering it, since I gave my boyfriend freedom to attend a bachelor party.

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Then she should go to a male strip club. The "indulge his friend" comment is basically "I want to go get boobs in my face, but I'll blame it on my friend".

 

So if he is going to get hooters in his face, she should be able to slip a few dollar bills in some g-strings.

 

I don't see it that way. I read his comment of endulging his friend as meaning, "I'm going to do what my FRIEND (the bachelor, the reason why I'm there to begin with) wants me to do, not what YOU want me to do. If I were to do what YOU want me to do, I'd be staying home in PA."

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Well it does, so deal with it, or write to Oprah Winfrey about it. The women who are against it, seem very, very insecure.

 

Thats what all guys say until they find out their gf dry humped some other guy on a dancefloor somewhere while he was getting his lapdance.

 

then the @#$@ hits the fan.

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I don't see it that way. I read his comment of endulging his friend as meaning, "I'm going to do what my FRIEND (the bachelor, the reason why I'm there to begin with) wants me to do, not what YOU want me to do. If I were to do what YOU want me to do, I'd be staying home in PA."

 

this guy of hers has a history of disrespecting her and letting his friends disrespect her. Trust me, the guy wants to go to the strip club just as much as his friend, but its easier on him to say he is going because of his friend.

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Most likely my friends will want to take me to some male strip club for a bachelorette party. Im considering it, since I gave my boyfriend freedom to attend a bachelor party.

 

You bet. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

 

but whaddya wanna bet he'll just use that as an excuse to go out and party hardy some more?

 

I wouldn't really believe this to be the case, but after your, "kicked me out of the apartment" thread, I'd say thats about right.

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Wow, Al Bundy...I agree with you.

 

 

I've never been a huge fan of strip clubs. I went to one, but it wasn't a male strip club. I just went with one my one friend to pick up one of her guy friends who was drunk and couldn't drive home.

 

I didn't see really what the appeal was, but maybe that's because naked girls don't interest me. Most likely my friends will want to take me to some male strip club for a bachelorette party. Im considering it, since I gave my boyfriend freedom to attend a bachelor party.

 

Most women don't see the appeal in it and most women don't got to see naked guys or have the same physical reactions as guys going to see naked women. That is why there are way more female strip joints catering to men then male strip joints catering to women. More of an equal comparrison would you going out to a bar or club to let guys flirt with you, or even you phsycially stripper for one night to have some fun. Most guys have a knee jerk reaction to that and fail to understand that the way they feel about that idea is the same idea some women can feel when their man is knowningly putting himself in a shady and disresceptful postion to go see strippers while having a gf that actually cares about him.

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this guy of hers has a history of disrespecting her and letting his friends disrespect her. Trust me, the guy wants to go to the strip club just as much as his friend, but its easier on him to say he is going because of his friend.

 

Ugh, here we go again.

 

What do you mean a history? He went to a strip club once with coworkers before I even met him and he didn't have a gf at the time. He told me it wasnt even that great, and the drinks were really expensive.

 

And he DID go because of his friend. He doesn't have interest in going on his own or with friends any other time, so why are you saying that he wants to go just as much as his friend does?

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Because some guys use the excuse that they are going just to appease their friends just to make their gfs feel better but they are really actually excited about seeing other women gyrate naked around for them. You really don't think some guys tell women those kind of lies? Whether your boyfriens being truthful or not is only something he really knows, hopefully he is being honest.

 

I've had guys make jokes about porn and then when they found out what I think about it they quickly retract and try to say they don't like it. Of course it would lead to a big fight because they were lying right to my face. Same concept here. Some men will infact tell you what they think you want to hear and not the truth. This is one reason why I find it hard to trust guys on a personal level.

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