He is going to Vegas this weekend!!!!

[Lauriebell82]

Because some guys use the excuse that they are going just to appease their friends just to make their gfs feel better but they are really actually excited about seeing other women gyrate naked around for them. You really don't think some guys tell women those kind of lies? Whether your boyfriens being truthful or not is only something he really knows, hopefully he is being honest.

 

I've had guys make jokes about porn and then when they found out what I think about it they quickly retract and try to say they don't like it. Of course it would lead to a big fight because they were lying right to my face. Same concept here. Some men will infact tell you what they think you want to hear and not the truth. This is one reason why I find it hard to trust guys on a personal level.

 

Yeah, I understand what you are saying. I dont have a real huge issue with strip clubs or porn. I mean I wouldn't want my boyfriend doing that stuff ALL THE TIME, but for a bachelor party or whatever, I will be okay with it.

 

I'm sure guys tell women lies like that all the time too. My boyfriend just isn't one of them.

[Krajt]

After reading Jersey's bitter and misandrous comments about men, I can see why the Roman soldiers engaged in leisurely sex with each other and just used women as a tool for keeping the Empire alive.

 

Hell, I now know why the Celts decapitated the heads of a thousand Anglo-Saxons, Normans and the Vikings, it's because they got so much ear ache from their wives that the only stress relief was charging into battle.

 

Jersey makes me want to charge into battle.

[LoveJonesRomance]

Funny.

 

Reading your very first post, and the very last, one might think they were written by two completely different people.

[Lauriebell82]

Funny.

 

Reading your very first post, and the very last, one might think they were written by two completely different people.

 

Yeah, I got a lot of good advice from both posters on here and friends of mine. I was never hell bent against strip clubs, just worried/insecure about him going to like tons of them. I did a lot of thinking and realized I was being stupid, and that I know if I took a trip like that he'd be supportive of me too.

[sb129]

Just one more point, it might be best for you and relationship, if you didn't post every single insecurity you have

 

I agree with this LB- I have been away from LS for nearly 2 months and I see you are still responsible for 20+ page threads as a result of your insecurities.

 

Thanks. I probably made a bigger deal out of this then I should have. Similar to a few responses, a few of my friends said I should be worried that he is going to Vegas. In reality, I didn't have anything to worry about all along. I am glad that I got my own time as well though. I sure wouldn't want to spend EVERY weekend apart, but it was good to get our own time. Thanks for the advice!

 

Even though you spent a large chunk of said weekend on here talking about him being away and going through various scenarios in your head. Its not really having your own time if you spend most of it worrying about what the other one is doing....

[Lauriebell82]

I agree with this LB- I have been away from LS for nearly 2 months and I see you are still responsible for 20+ page threads as a result of your insecurities.

 

I don't ask for 400 response threads. Believe me, I fully regret posting this in the first place. I'm done then, happy?

 

Even though you spent a large chunk of said weekend on here talking about him being away and going through various scenarios in your head. Its not really having your own time if you spend most of it worrying about what the other one is doing....

 

The REASON I said I spent most of the weekend having my own time is because I did! Yeah, I came on loveshack while I was at my parents, but I spent a lot of time with my parents and my friends who I rarely see.

 

Post if you want to, I'm done with this thread.

[Krajt]

Laurie why do you hardly see friends and family? That's bad, I think you try and spend more time with them, space is also a good thing in a relationship.

[Cherry Blossom 35]

LB is free to post about whatever she wants whenever she wants to. I think she posts here far less frequently than some other members. Leave the girl be. She's trying to work this stuff out. And for the record, I used to be a lot more insecure about that stuff when I was her age too. It takes time and experience to move beyond it.

[norajane]

LB is free to post about whatever she wants whenever she wants to. I think she posts here far less frequently than some other members. Leave the girl be. She's trying to work this stuff out. And for the record, I used to be a lot more insecure about that stuff when I was her age too. It takes time and experience to move beyond it.

 

If they'd had a board like this when I was her age, I'd have been posting like mad!

[Cherry Blossom 35]

If they'd had a board like this when I was her age, I'd have been posting like mad!

 

 

OMG, me too!!!!!

[Al_Bundy]

Ugh, here we go again.

 

What do you mean a history?

 

The history that you let everyone on this forum know everytime he does something disrespectful.

 

Or did you forget the long winded "kick me out of my apartment for the weekend" thread?

 

 

He went to a strip club once with coworkers before I even met him and he didn't have a gf at the time. He told me it wasnt even that great, and the drinks were really expensive.

 

And he DID go because of his friend. He doesn't have interest in going on his own or with friends any other time, so why are you saying that he wants to go just as much as his friend does?

 

Well if I'm way off base, then why are you making a big deal out of it?

 

Something is wrong here. You complain about what he does, whether it be Vegas or the weekend you were put out of your own apartment. then you defend his actions til the cows come home?

 

Make up your mind. Is this all about the drama for you?

 

Don't make old Al sorry for sticking up for you. Or I might have to give you a well deserved "No Ma'am"

[Jersey Shortie]

After reading Jersey's bitter and misandrous comments about men, I can see why the Roman soldiers engaged in leisurely sex with each other and just used women as a tool for keeping the Empire alive.

 

Hell, I now know why the Celts decapitated the heads of a thousand Anglo-Saxons, Normans and the Vikings, it's because they got so much ear ache from their wives that the only stress relief was charging into battle.

 

Jersey makes me want to charge into battle.

 

You keep saying I make misandrous comments. I would like to exactly know what comments I have made that prove to be misandrous. If you are able to see misandry in my comments, then I have no doubt that you can back it up with hard proof.

 

In turn, You make me want to charge into battle myself. If you think men aren't without their stresses you are fooling yourself.

[Treasa]

I Don't Trust Men

Well I don't. I wish I did. But it seems that every time your man isn't with you, and even when he is, he is still always seeking out other women on some level.

 

Could be just from looking at another chick and thinking about her or looking at porn, or going to strip clubs.

 

Why can't men just be loyal to their girl? It's like guys don't really care about their women. And if they do have a woman, all they want is new women to think about.

 

It's making me bitter to men and I don't want to be but I don't have alot of faith in men and their loyality or love of the women they are with.

 

Not to mention that the things they are thinking about in porn and strip clubs are all these idealized versions of female beauty from fake hair extentsions to fake breasts. How is a normal girl suppose to feel pretty to her guy?

 

I don't want to be bitter about men but I am.

 

Term/Definition: misandry (uncountable) - The hatred of, or pathological aversion to men.

 

No, this isn't absolute proof that you are a misandrist. No more than you can prove that Laurie's boyfriend behaved inappropriately this past weekend. No more than you can prove that all men will eventually look for something outside of their relationships. I think it's fair to say that if we can't read your mind, you can't read anyone else's mind.

 

And anyone who doesn't like the OP's posts doesn't have to read them, just like anyone who does read them can comment, provided they follow the TOS.

[Al_Bundy]

No, this isn't absolute proof that you are a misandrist. No more than you can prove that Laurie's boyfriend behaved inappropriately this past weekend.

 

So just how was his weekend? Did he come home and overcompensate for his hooter filled weekend?

 

How was her weekend? Stuff any bills in other men's g-strings?

 

When is the next trip his buddies want to go partying or kick her out of the apartment?

[Treasa]

So just how was his weekend? Did he come home and overcompensate for his hooter filled weekend?

 

How was her weekend? Stuff any bills in other men's g-strings?

 

When is the next trip his buddies want to go partying or kick her out of the apartment?

 

I don't know. Do you? If not, you're only proving my point that no one here can tell her what he did or didn't do.

 

I don't think the guy is a saint. Personally, I wouldn't date him. But I also don't make blanket generalizations about men and how they all cheat and lie.

 

I do think Laurie needs to spend less time worrying about her boyfriend and more time on herself and her own happiness. But that's just my opinion.

[pretty professional]

Vonerik? Is that you?

 

quote=Al_Bundy;1864400]The history that you let everyone on this forum know everytime he does something disrespectful.

 

Or did you forget the long winded "kick me out of my apartment for the weekend" thread?

 

 

 

 

Well if I'm way off base, then why are you making a big deal out of it?

 

Something is wrong here. You complain about what he does, whether it be Vegas or the weekend you were put out of your own apartment. then you defend his actions til the cows come home?

 

Make up your mind. Is this all about the drama for you?

 

Don't make old Al sorry for sticking up for you. Or I might have to give you a well deserved "No Ma'am"

[Jersey Shortie]

Term/Definition: misandry (uncountable) - The hatred of, or pathological aversion to men.

 

No, this isn't absolute proof that you are a misandrist.

 

True. You posting the definition of misandry means nothing.

 

No more than you can prove that Laurie's boyfriend behaved inappropriately this past weekend.

 

No one said he did anything. It's a shady situation all around and worth questioning. If it wasn't, we wouldn't be having the epic thread we are having now.

 

 

No more than you can prove that all men will eventually look for something outside of their relationships.

 

I never even ever said anything close to that. Where are getting your information from. I will say that I think men that visit strip clubs while in relationships are looking for something somewhat outside their relationship to get a thrill from another woman. That's my opinioin and not unneccsarily an untrue one.

 

 

And anyone who doesn't like the OP's posts doesn't have to read them, just like anyone who does read them can comment, provided they follow the TOS.

 

I'm glad you told us! I was worried.

[JamesM]

And so the thread keeps going while the boyfriend is back from the weekend.

 

BTW, maybe I missed it, did he ever even GO to a strip club?

 

Did he even get the chance to see any naked women?

 

Did he touch them at all?

 

Or did we just have a great time with a long thread at his expense?

 

Poor guy. For the length of this thread, I would have hoped he at least got to see one naked woman!

[Lishy]

I am shocked this thread is still going!

 

*NEWSFLASH* LB has sorted this out

 

Mind you it is just the bickering left over, they should take it to PM!

[Al_Bundy]

I don't know. Do you? If not, you're only proving my point that no one here can tell her what he did or didn't do.

 

Nobody can. But the history she has of him disrespecting her isn't very good.

 

 

I don't think the guy is a saint. Personally, I wouldn't date him.

 

My point exactly

 

 

But I also don't make blanket generalizations about men and how they all cheat and lie.

 

Neither do I, and I'm Al Bundy!

 

 

I do think Laurie needs to spend less time worrying about her boyfriend and more time on herself and her own happiness. But that's just my opinion.

 

I agree wholeheartedly. I personally think she needs to lose him. he cares more about partying with his friends than what she thinks.

[Al_Bundy]

Vonerik? Is that you?

 

No. Is Vonerik a card carrying member of No Ma'am??

 

 

The history that you let everyone on this forum know everytime he does something disrespectful.

 

Or did you forget the long winded "kick me out of my apartment for the weekend" thread?

 

 

 

 

Well if I'm way off base, then why are you making a big deal out of it?

 

Something is wrong here. You complain about what he does, whether it be Vegas or the weekend you were put out of your own apartment. then you defend his actions til the cows come home?

 

Make up your mind. Is this all about the drama for you?

 

Don't make old Al sorry for sticking up for you. Or I might have to give you a well deserved "No Ma'am"