jcrouth Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 I have been dating this woman for about 2 months now. Everything was going great, we enjoyed each others company, we spoke on the phone for hours on end and completely loss track of time. Then i go on a buisness trip and when i get back she says that she really doesn't think that she loves me and she doesn't want a relationship right now. We still talk occaisionally, but not like we used to. I really love this woman, and I want her back in my life. I am not sure about what has changed with her besides her finally getting her maiden name back. She didn't date anyone seriously for well over 2 years and then we hit off very well. I am not sure if there is still hope in this relationship. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Lost in Love. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 20, 2003 Share Posted August 20, 2003 Have some patience and give her space, lots of it. If anything was there, it will return. If she needs to get on with her life, let her do that. You really don't need to have anything to do with a lady who's crazy about you one week...and tunes you out totally when you return. That BS. Don't waste your time trying to figure her out. Go about your life. If she really cares about you, she'll go bananas when she hears you're seeing other people. If she doesn't care about you, what you do with your life will be totally irrelevant to her. She certainly doesn't sound like anybody I would chase after, not after her sudden turnaround. If she's recently divorced, it may take her some time to heal and get her head back on straight. Maybe you were just a poor ole rebound. Link to post Share on other sites
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