grogster Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Oh, and the drama continues! Not quite sure if you really believe this stuff or just writing for a reaction, maybe boredom. It wouldn't surprise me at all if "sad and confused" is actually you A., writing in the third person! That's what I think. The writing styles, and the somewhat disconnected, robotically stoner tones, are very similar. Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 With friends I also look for soulmates, not for someone to tell me what to do. Well, then, you can hold hands and sing Kumbaya while you go down together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 23, 2009 Author Share Posted October 23, 2009 Sigh.. I was so happy he was back and posting.. and even that is taken away. Link to post Share on other sites
SadandConfusedWA Posted October 23, 2009 Share Posted October 23, 2009 That's what I think. The writing styles, and the somewhat disconnected, robotically stoner tones, are very similar. That's because we are soulmates silly Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 23, 2009 Author Share Posted October 23, 2009 That's because we are soulmates silly (We don't write "that" much alike, though. I wouldn't say something like this, at least not with those words. ) Link to post Share on other sites
SadandConfusedWA Posted October 23, 2009 Share Posted October 23, 2009 (We don't write "that" much alike, though. I wouldn't say something like this, at least not with those words. ) Yeah, I don't think that we write that much alike either. They probably read few of my posts and didn't really bother to look at the rest. Typical for LS: people draw conclusions based on incomplete information to match their own (incorrect) perceptions. Is it so hard to believe that Ariadne has a close friend? Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 Well, "sad and confused", you flatter yourself. Perhaps, you 're just not that interesting to read all your posts! Hmm, "LS people draw conclusions based on incomplete information to match their own incorrect misperceptions". How did you collect this data? OR, is this YOUR Own Perception? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 Well, "sad and confused", you flatter yourself. Perhaps, you 're just not that interesting to read all your posts! Hmm, "LS people draw conclusions based on incomplete information to match their own incorrect misperceptions". How did you collect this data? OR, is this YOUR Own Perception? Defensive much? Ariadne, I really hope you do move in with your parents; perhaps they could provide some of the structure your life lacks. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 I was so happy he was back and posting.. and even that is taken away. Yeah, all that did was feed your obsession and feelings for him. All one sided, A. Sorry, but I think it's good he stopped posting, and he isn't writing you anymore. It's time to let go and find a 'real' man to make you happy, someone who can truly give his heart to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 24, 2009 Author Share Posted October 24, 2009 I really hope you do move in with your parents; perhaps they could provide some of the structure your life lacks. Thanks. I don't even know what I'll do in terms of profession. I was telling my son that maybe I could be a guru and showed him a clip of a woman guru ( ). He says, I don't know Mom.. are you sure you've got what it takes? (and then he suggested I made some videos for utube to try) I think it's good he stopped posting, and he isn't writing you anymore. I guess. Whatever makes him happy. Thanks wwiu. Link to post Share on other sites
SadandConfusedWA Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 Well, "sad and confused", you flatter yourself. Perhaps, you 're just not that interesting to read all your posts! Hmm, "LS people draw conclusions based on incomplete information to match their own incorrect misperceptions". How did you collect this data? OR, is this YOUR Own Perception? Well in this case, we are talking about YOU and your perception is clearly incorrect as I and Ariadne are not the same person. No one is asking you to read my posts, but it would be helpful if in the future you restrained yourself from jumping to incorrect conclusions Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 It continues to baffle me how some people have the need to talk for A. The post was to Ariadne. (this all sounds familiar!) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 14, 2009 Author Share Posted November 14, 2009 Well, I did something.. As I mentioned before, Denver guy was coming to LA in Nov for his business. He comes every year for about ten days. This time I knew he was here and I felt like doing something, but I couldn't go see him, and I tried watching him with the binoculars before but that didn't work very well because the place is incredibly busy and I don't know when he'll come and go. So I decided to have a rose delivered to his room. It was a Saturday. I got the rose, drove the 30 minutes to the place, and walked inside the installation of the expo which is a huge building. It was a bit tense seeing all these many people standing and knowing that any of them could be DG or his crew. I went to the information desk and asked the lady if she could send the flower to DG's room.. to which she responded that they didn't do that. That I actually had to call DG's room and tell them to go outside and meet me. But right then and there she goes running across the room calling this guy, who happened to be a security guard, and asked him to escort me to DG's room. I thanked her and headed with this young guy to DG's room.. just that half the way I asked him if he could deliver it for me, to which he said yes, and I went back to my car. Funny thing, as he was leaving he turned around and asked me... do you want me to tell them your name!? I told him my name, he repeated it and kept on going. Well, I don't know if DG received the rose or not, that's as far as I got. And of course I haven't heard from him. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 I'm sorry Ariadne. I don't understand. You know he is in town and you can see him. Perhaps get a relationship going OR closure. You do all the way there and you don't deliver it yourself? Even though the security guard would SAY that you had given him the rose to deliver? Do you only want the fantasy of all of this and not really anything real or substantial with DG? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 14, 2009 Author Share Posted November 14, 2009 Do you only want the fantasy of all of this and not really anything real or substantial with DG? No, I'm not going to impose him with my presence. What is he going to do? Tell me to leave? I could watch him go by, but it's just too inconvenient to do that over there. It was easier to send him a flower. Btw, in the card I just wished him success with his expo. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 No, I'm not going to impose him with my presence. What is he going to do? Tell me to leave? Would he? Do you honestly think his reaction would be to tell you to leave? Because if so perhaps you really do need to let go of this and move on. There are men out there who you can create a future with Araidne. But I think you have to let go of this first or you just won't even see them. I could watch him go by, but it's just too inconvenient to do that over there. It was easier to send him a flower. Btw, in the card I just wished him success with his expo. While I appreciate you just wanting to convey a message it doesn't seem that he would see that as an invitation to call you - but you certainly know him better than any of us ever could. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 14, 2009 Author Share Posted November 14, 2009 Would he? Do you honestly think his reaction would be to tell you to leave? I don't know what he would have done. I guess I could have also sent some mariachis to his room, put petals on his pathway, write on the street with chalk, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 I don't know what he would have done. Don't you think it was an opportunity to see so you would quit pondering and wondering? You could finally stop lamenting and really know to move forward with whatever that is. I guess I could have also sent some mariachis to his room, put petals on his pathway, write on the street with chalk, etc. And hired a harpist - let loose white doves -- have a sky banner written -- follow him around with his theme music...yes I know. A lot could have been done. But just a mention of give me a call on the card - if he didn't you would know he intentionally didn't and there is an answer in there for you. If he did just to say thank you - it is still a starting point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 14, 2009 Author Share Posted November 14, 2009 Don't you think it was an opportunity to see so you would quit pondering and wondering? Yeah, maybe. But just a mention of give me a call on the card - if he didn't you would know He is not talking to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 He is not talking to me. Oh Ariadne. {{{ Ariadne }}} Can't you see that you have needs that aren't in any way addressed in this whole thing? That haven't been addressed from the beginning? You DO deserve ALL of it. Not just a sliver - and certainly a lot more than nothing. I'm afraid you will never have fulfillment of that. I really really am. I feel so sad right now for you. And someone is out there pining away for that unique spirit that is YOU and lonely all the while. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 14, 2009 Author Share Posted November 14, 2009 Oh Ariadne. {{{ Ariadne }}} I feel so sad right now for you. How nice to wake up this morning to your message IG. Thank you so much. {{{ IG }}} Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 (edited) Oh Ariadne. {{{ Ariadne }}} Can't you see that you have needs that aren't in any way addressed in this whole thing? That haven't been addressed from the beginning? You DO deserve ALL of it. Not just a sliver - and certainly a lot more than nothing. I'm afraid you will never have fulfillment of that. I really really am. I feel so sad right now for you. And someone is out there pining away for that unique spirit that is YOU and lonely all the while. That is so true, IG. I think I can see why you did that, taking the rose up there, and leaving. It seems a way to acknowledge what was. Or it could be how it turned out to be: an acknowledgement. I hope it is, or will be, a symbol somehow - of putting it behind you. ((Ariadne)) Edited November 15, 2009 by deux ex machina clarity Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 15, 2009 Author Share Posted November 15, 2009 I think I can see why you did that, taking the rose up there, and leaving. It seems a way to acknowledge what was. Or it could be how it turned out to be: an acknowledgement. ((Ariadne)) Thanks deux, Is ok, I just like being romantic and if I can't be with him with who else. I don't get many opportunities, my life is pretty simple. Hopefully it wasn't a problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted November 18, 2009 Author Share Posted November 18, 2009 (edited) .............. Edited November 18, 2009 by Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Ariadne, just get over him! He is not interested in you and you are stalking him so just move on now ... it is getting so old and its not healthy for you I am shocked he has never called the police on you Link to post Share on other sites
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