hoping2heal Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 Yes. He for me is more than that. He is true love. Are you being serious? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 10, 2009 Author Share Posted August 10, 2009 Are you being serious? Yes. But maybe one day I'll change my mind. I may be wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 Yes. But maybe one day I'll change my mind. I may be wrong. Honey, it's very evident when you look at what matters (actions from the person across) this is hardly true love. You have cut yourself off and clung to the image of a person who feels lukewarm at best about you, and you think this is love? Come on now. By the way, I say lukewarm at best because regardless of what he's ever told you; if he was mad and passionate and couldn't get enough of you? He wouldn't have taken your email lying down, the way he did. So misunderstanding or not, it proved then and there how this man feels for you, and you're sitting there cutting yourself off and talking about how this is true love and all men died when you met him, and you're about as relevent to him as taking the train. Come on, this is not good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 10, 2009 Author Share Posted August 10, 2009 you're about as relevent to him as taking the train. Yes, maybe you are right. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 Yes, maybe you are right. Well honey, isn't it obvious? I mean really? You can always judge a person's intentions and feelings by their actions. You sent him an email; and misunderstanding or not; for him it was like "okay, bye then". That was that. If this man had any real strong conviction about you, he would of contacted you to find out what would make you say such a thing, or try and work things out. He wouldn't just simply opt out like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 10, 2009 Author Share Posted August 10, 2009 for him it was like "okay, bye then". That was that. I know, I know. But he has done it before (the longest for two years) and then writes. I can't seem to forget him, or want to either. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 I know, I know. But he has done it before (the longest for two years) and then writes. I can't seem to forget him, or want to either. Sorry, but that means nothing. If he was crazy about you, he wouldn't be able to stand 2 years passing without you. It's simple as that. He comes around now and then because he's bored and there's nothing better to do, simple as that. He proved that very thing because as you said; before he has dissapeared and then comes back; so he did that, you sent the email and he just said "well okay bye then" more or less. This is not behavior by someone who is in love with another person. You have forgotten all men over this guy, and to him? You are just a sure thing to get ahold of when he's bored or has nothing better going on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 10, 2009 Author Share Posted August 10, 2009 This is not behavior by someone who is in love with another person. I don't know.. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 I don't know.. Then that makes you the last to know, because it's glaringly obvious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 15, 2009 Author Share Posted October 15, 2009 Well, I just wanted to say that Denver guy did reappear, but not to me directly, but as a regular member of this forum. So you guys have been talking to DG for the past 1.5 months.. I was quite surprised. I posted to him once and he didn't come back, but not sure if it was because of that since it hasn't been that long. I was glad to see him post actually, since I really haven't heard from him in all this time. Hopefully he'll stay, his advice was good as always and on the same lines of the advice he's been giving in forums for years. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 What a twist! Yeah, I learned to get excited with little. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Well, I just wanted to say that Denver guy did reappear, but not to me directly, but as a regular member of this forum. So you guys have been talking to DG for the past 1.5 months.. Tell us who!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 Tell us who!!! Here (I don't exist in his posts btw) Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Here (I don't exist in his posts btw) Do you ever wonder why that is? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 Do you ever wonder why that is? I don't wonder anymore h2h. Just whatever.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Well, I just wanted to say that Denver guy did reappear, but not to me directly, but as a regular member of this forum. So you guys have been talking to DG for the past 1.5 months.. I was quite surprised. I posted to him once and he didn't come back, but not sure if it was because of that since it hasn't been that long. I was glad to see him post actually, since I really haven't heard from him in all this time. Hopefully he'll stay, his advice was good as always and on the same lines of the advice he's been giving in forums for years. How do you know he won't be back? How did you know it was him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 How do you know he won't be back? How did you know it was him? I don't know if he'll come back. Maybe. I read all the posts and I have no doubt. Plus, he left clues all over the place. Here is one: ------ DG: Never noticed any correlation myself, except that I recall noticing that one of the times when I was doing more than 500 miles of biking per week for a while, my interest level seemed to taper off some. But there wasn't anyone around at the time I was particularly interested in, and that seems to make a bigger difference than anything. Someone: 500 miles of biking? That has to be exhaustion, man... Most I've done in one shot is 42 miles, though - this past Tuesday. DG: Congrats on the new personal record! Longest single ride I've ever done was just over 190 (though I got off the bike for a break after the first 110 miles). I imagine any nerve compression issues have a lot to do with how you adjust your saddle and your riding position... Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 DG: Never noticed any correlation myself, except that I recall noticing that one of the times when I was doing more than 500 miles of biking per week for a while, my interest level seemed to taper off some. But there wasn't anyone around at the time I was particularly interested in, and that seems to make a bigger difference than anything. Someone: 500 miles of biking? That has to be exhaustion, man... Most I've done in one shot is 42 miles, though - this past Tuesday. DG: Congrats on the new personal record! Longest single ride I've ever done was just over 190 (though I got off the bike for a break after the first 110 miles). I imagine any nerve compression issues have a lot to do with how you adjust your saddle and your riding position... What makes you think that's him? That could be anyone... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 What makes you think that's him? That could be anyone... You guys are free to believe it's not him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 Just for kicks, When I first saw a few posts that looked suspicious, I wrote to my bff since she knows his writing well. She said: Yes, I don't think you are being delusional here. It sounds 100% like him to me. Of course, there could be someone else with similar writing style. But...it seems like he is talking about [dollgirl] in his unrequited love posts, and everything matches perfectly. Wow. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Your full of crap Ariadne... Unless he tells you it is him then it ISN"T... Maybe that poster was me ???? Link to post Share on other sites
SadandConfusedWA Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Let's streamline things here. I know more than you do, and it is indeed DG posting. Now proceed to give advice as if this were a fact. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 The advice I would give if it were him posting would be for her to get herself into counseling and deal with why she can't get over this jerk. Yes.. he is a jerk.. he has repeatedly continued to lead her on and let this destruction of her self esteem and social life. The other advice I would give would be to let it go.. if it was him he certainly isn't posting TO HER, ABOUT HER or INCLUDING HER. It was HER that decided to link the 2 together. I read those posts.. those posts are posted by someone who was dumped and was posting to get over the person who dumped him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 he has repeatedly continued to lead her on and let this destruction of her self esteem and social life. Well, in a way that is true. He knew how much I loved him and that was waiting for him... and the first thing he did when he broke up was to start writing to me again. Of course, I got really excited to hear from him again, especially since I hadn't heard for so long. What I never expected was that he was going to throw me under the bus. But what can you do, it happens. And yes, that poster is DG, and he is talking in some posts about the dollgirl and in some other just generic stuff that he's said quote on quote before. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 Let's streamline things here. I know more than you do, and it is indeed DG posting. Now proceed to give advice as if this were a fact. Thank you. :love: Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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