Lovingyou Posted March 30, 2000 Share Posted March 30, 2000 hey ok I am dating this guy and ushually I don't back away from a kiss EVER well this guy I really like and I were together and he went to kiss me and I backed off!!! WHY! I rarely ever do that! I mean I truly have STRONG feelings for this guy! WHY DID I TURN MY HEAD! WHAT SHOULD I DO?? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 30, 2000 Share Posted March 30, 2000 You turned your head because you were nervous. Your turned your head because you like this guy a whole lot and kissing him would be very special to you. There is no doubt in my mind that your heart sped up quite a bit at the time. And you spent the rest of the evening sobbing because you did NOT kiss him. You turned your head because you like this guy so much you are a bit frightened that taking the relationship up a knotch may bring you closer to hurt. You are very sensitive and you've been through a lot in your life. At this point you want things to go well. You thought a lot about this kiss long before he made the pass...and once he did, so many things were rushing through your head that it was easier to turn your head than to face all the emotions that you had anticipated. You turned your head because a kiss at this point from someone you have very strong feelings for could bring out even stronger feelings and you may be afraid of that. You turned your head because you have a shy streak when it comes to guys you really care about. Maybe you turned your head because you were worried you hadn't used enough mouthwash prior. My guess is your knees got weak and you rushed to get onto another subject very quickly during this awkward movement. But the real problem here is not that you turned your head, but that you lost out on a chance for big smack on the lips from a guy you really like and that has you a bit depressed and upset. Did I answer your first question? What should you do? You don't turn your head next time!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Farrah Posted March 30, 2000 Share Posted March 30, 2000 maybe you just wanted to play it slow, knowing a kiss can speed up everything. Link to post Share on other sites
Nicky Posted March 30, 2000 Share Posted March 30, 2000 maybe you just wanted to play it slow, knowing a kiss can speed up everything. You might also want to briefly apologise to him, or take the initiative and kiss him when you next see him: it may not have encouraged him to repeat this- depending upon how your relationship is. Link to post Share on other sites
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