ninjaturtles Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 Hi there, Hope you are all getting on with life...feeling better and getting stronger? In a nutshell, my Ex called me on my birthday to wish me happy birthday. I did not pick up, so he left me a voice message. I sent him a text much later in the night, thanking him...(but I did not return his call). Well, on his birthday, a few months after mine, I did not contact him at all. (This is because I felt sad...as the year before we had been together on his birthday). So, I ignored his birthday, but a few weeks later, we chatted via text (aka sms) and I think i casually wished him a belated happy birthday. Said I was busy during his birthday bla bla bla. We had a short chat and ended it there. Well, his birthday is coming up in say about 7 months (A LONG WHILE I KNOW.LOL). I am wondering if I should call him/wish him happy birthday this time around. My birthday comes up before his, so I guess if he calls me I will do the same to him. What do you think? Wish him happy birthday or not? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ninjaturtles Posted September 28, 2008 Author Share Posted September 28, 2008 Your reasons for your answers will be appreciated God bless you. xx Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky555 Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 7 months from now do you still want to be talking to your ex? 7 months from now would you like to be with a guy that can be the right man for you and wish him happy birthday instead. I wished happy b-day to my ex today. lol i have mixed feelings about it. I frist wondered why i talked to him. Then i thought well i was really needing to talk to someone to get my mind off the day and he was the only one available via online that is. So i didn't fall back in love with him. I found myself the day after talking to him..saying happy b-day in a post. But as usual he never thanks me or anything. I don't think next year we will be in contact. I really don't see the point in being in contact with him now. I guess i am trying to be friends but i don't think we are compatible as friends cuz there will always be that barrier of once being together. I hope you find a new boyfriend and I hope i find a new boyfriend Link to post Share on other sites
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