she likes me but goese out with a friend

[confused1970]

this girl ive been talking to has showed intrest in me. ive told her i like her she likes me too but she is having trouble cause she like me and some1 else. i found out that some1 else is a so so friend of mine and now goes out with her. i really feel like she is the one for me and im really confused

 

this weekend she went away on a little trip and i texted her all weekend as usual and we flirted had a good time talking to each other even tho she has a bf and i just proceeded as a friend. and she tells me that she feels bad cause we talk more than her and her bf. shes in a relationship and not happy. she really likes the guy but idk how much he really likes her...yet they go out. she knows she flirts with me and she really likes me and wants me to wait for her and i want to wait for her. but at the same time i want to move on. it seems like she wants me to chase her and make her mine but i dont want to force her to love me. i just want her to be happy and i want to be with her. im confused and dont know wat to do. should i make a last ditch effort to get her or should i just let it go as hard as itll be... and also she got upset wen i told her i was gonna move on. its so confusing some1 help me out

[Davey McG]

She's playing you like a videogame.

 

You're feeding her ego. Her boyfriend gives her what she needs and you give her an ego boost. If she was really unhappy she would leave him, but she's just using you to fill in the needs that he doesn't provide. However, the odds are he's great in the sack or somesuch.

 

She's never going to come to you if you wait for her. She's going to keep you on a leash. Let it go. She may try and mess with your head, but for your own sanity get away from her. She got upset when you said you'd move on because you wouldn't be there stroking her ego not because she secretly loves you.

 

You sound quite young and this is a mistake that I definitely made a few years ago.