Is something wrong with me??? I get mad over everything!!

[c2942]

I know this will seem like I am crazy but I really can't help it.

 

Everyone including my b/f says I need to take an anger management class or take medicine.

 

I get mad over everything!! He forgots to call me, I go nuts. I have to go to work at 8:00 in the morning and I will actually get up about 30 minutes early just so I can go to his house and cuss him out! Sometimes I will hit him with a shoe.

 

Also, my b/f says I am the biggest bitch he has ever met.

I know he loves me but eventually I am afraid I will run him off!! I think I am in love with him so much and I am scared!!

 

I like to be in control and I have always got my way with everything!! That's why when he wants something and its not what I want and he won't change his mind, I go crazy!!

 

PLEASE HELP ME!! I AM GOING CRAZY AND I WANT TO CHANGE!!!

[jalexy]

YEah, sounds liek you might need some anger management. I think its very wrong of you to hit him just because you are angry like that. I think there are many underlying issues inside of you that you need to take care of. go to counseling girly, there is nothing wrong with going.

[avrom87]

I agree with the last post. If u want to keep your honney, then u need to get your anger under control, or he is eventually going to break up with you!

[Hunter]

You sound like what I am going through.

 

You are getting mad or upset at people and things that is not the real root of the problem.

I have been raised in a home where there was no love, only neglect and abuse.

At the age of 18 I left it all, only to be in several abusive relationships.

 

All this anger from years past is controlling and ruining my current life.

 

I am currently in a relationship now that I thought was not abusive until people in this forum pointed out that it is. I am in a relationship where I am not getting attention, I am getting neglected, I am not getting my emotional needs met, and someone pointed this out that it is the same type of abuse.

 

Because of this all, I have turned into a bitter person, and I am trying to find love and attention in all the wrong places, with the wrong people.

 

You need to talk your problems out to a counsellor or someone that can help you.

 

My problem is that people give me great advice, and many are from this forum, I just have to listen to what people are saying and do something about it. The best thing about this forum is that people do not know me, and people are not judging, and the fact that they care and want to help.

 

Best of luck to you!

[cindy0039]

Originally posted by c2942

I know this will seem like I am crazy but I really can't help it.

 

Everyone including my b/f says I need to take an anger management class or take medicine.

 

I get mad over everything!! He forgots to call me, I go nuts. I have to go to work at 8:00 in the morning and I will actually get up about 30 minutes early just so I can go to his house and cuss him out! Sometimes I will hit him with a shoe.

 

Also, my b/f says I am the biggest bitch he has ever met.

I know he loves me but eventually I am afraid I will run him off!! I think I am in love with him so much and I am scared!!

 

I like to be in control and I have always got my way with everything!! That's why when he wants something and its not what I want and he won't change his mind, I go crazy!!

 

PLEASE HELP ME!! I AM GOING CRAZY AND I WANT TO CHANGE!!!

 

Please call a psychologist and make an appointment right away.