jalexy Posted August 21, 2003 Posted August 21, 2003 IF you are in love, when did you tell that person you felt that way? Just curious!
Leikela Posted August 21, 2003 Posted August 21, 2003 Hmmm... Well, when I met my boyfriend (this past September), we became good/best friends at first, because we both had SO's at the time. We instantly clicked and when he broke up with his gf about 2 months later, I told him I loved him as a friend. Then in mid-December, when I was intoxicated in New Orleans on vacation, I told him over the phone that I loved him. He told me he loved me too. I told him that if I didn't have a boyfriend, I would love him as a boyfriend. Then in early January, I told him I straight out loved him. This was before we even started going out. It was about 4 months after we first met and became friends. Needless to say, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend shortly after that and have been with my boyfriend now ever since. I love him so deeply still. It only gets better.
sunnie23 Posted August 21, 2003 Posted August 21, 2003 i felt love for my boyfriend about three months in, but didn't tell him till six months. he still hasn't told me though.
avrom87 Posted August 21, 2003 Posted August 21, 2003 I am the kind of guy that falls haed over heals in love with some one as soon as we have had about 3 good dates so it took me about 2 weeks to fall in love with my girlfriend.
Helly Posted August 21, 2003 Posted August 21, 2003 It took me a few months to feel love for my boyfriend. We started dating as soon as we met. At first, I really, really, really liked him but I always felt like I could live without him if our relationship ended. We developed a very close friendship and, after a few weeks, I realised that I loved this wonderful, beautiful, amazing person but I still felt like I would be ok if our relationship ended. I started to tell him how wonderful he was but I didn't feel I could say "I love you" 'cos I didn't feel "in love" with him. He'd told me, quite soon in our relationship, how strong his feelings were for me. After a few months, I felt safe, secure and loved and when things felt really, really good, spontaneously, I'd just tell him "I love you!!!" - it felt right! In love, in love, in love - it's difficult to explain it in words.
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