Whey2Big4u Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Question and this is somehting I ask myself everyday: Do i really have a feeling that my ex finace and I will wind up together again someday, or is it something I want to feel? can people just have that feeling? Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 If they've never given you any indication whatsoever that it's a possibility - it's wishful thinking. 'Where there's Life there's hope', so the saying goes. I say: Don't hold your breath and die of suffocation. Move on, leave it be, go find some fun. Link to post Share on other sites
EmperorR Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 I feel the same thing, odds are slim if not nill but only God knows the future. Link to post Share on other sites
HopeDiesLast Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 How does anyone ever really know? I mean, they could have SAID something, but actions speak louder than words. it could be that its over now, but how do you know what happens later in life? It could have been something they said or did to ease the blow of the break, it could be that they dont really know if theres a future, it could be your instinct.....it could be your denial. I feel the same way your do, Whey. Thinking about seeing a psychic lol. Link to post Share on other sites
northstar1 Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 How does anyone ever really know? I mean, they could have SAID something, but actions speak louder than words. it could be that its over now, but how do you know what happens later in life? It could have been something they said or did to ease the blow of the break, it could be that they dont really know if theres a future, it could be your instinct.....it could be your denial. I feel the same way your do, Whey. Thinking about seeing a psychic lol. Actions do speak louder than words. IF they are not actively trying to get back into your life, than you need to assume it's not gonna happen. Most of us here could spend weeks/months/years hanging onto a small shred of hope that things will go back to the way they were - but we'd be stuck in neutral and living pretty unhappy lives. Best is to move forward with the asssumption it's over for good , that history doesn't change, and if they do come back into your life, then you can assess it then. Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 Do i really have a feeling that my ex finace and I will wind up together again someday, or is it something I want to feel? can people just have that feeling? I think it depends on how strong the feeling is, and where it 'sits' in your body. I used to have something like that -- it kind of was both, a wish and a feeling. Well, more of a "sense" than a feeling, really. And about 5 years later, it turned out to be accurate -- we did reconnect in the way that I had 'felt' we would. After that, I don't have the same sense of it. It would still be cool to reconnect again, but it's not like I think/know it's gonna happen (as I did the previous time.) If any of that made sense . Link to post Share on other sites
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