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Taking two steps back...


mlchris2

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So, about a 2 months ago I started dating this girl. We get along great, she makes me happy and I do the same for her.

 

About a month into the relationship, she decided to move to another state and go to school. We decided that we would just take our relationship one day at a time. We gave each other the option to date other people, she didnt think it was fair for me that she just packed up and moved.

 

Well after she left, my group of friends explained to me that she isnt right for me. Most of the girls in our group dont like her as there has been trouble in the past between most of them for trash talking on each of them. My friends, which I value their opinions think I should end the relationship. Well I spent a few nights by myself thinking about what they said. I think they are right. There have been little things and ALOT OF DRAMA since she's came into the picture.

 

One day while talking to her on the phone... She dropped the "L" word to me. I told her that is a strong word and to not say it unless she really means it. Well I guess out of pitty, idiocracy... dunno.... I said it back to her.

 

About 2 weeks ago she moved back as the situation she was living in wasnt working out and decided to come back. Now that she is back, I just dont feel the same thing for her. I mean I really like this girl, but the drama that follows her around and the fact that my friends dont like her and i will eventually loose them make me think I'm takin this too fast.

 

I dont like hurting people. I know I have to talk to her and be honest, but I need advice. I know I'm going to hurt this girls feelings and there are going to be alot of people upset at me.

 

Im lost.... seeking advice

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