billabong89 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Hey thought I would get some advice on my situation. For a bit of history.... I dated a girl for 3.5 yrs and we have always been on and off. During the first couple years she would break up with me and then we would get back together. The reason being because she didn;t know how else to solve a problem...instead of working on a problem she would rather run away from it. Well last year I flirted with a couple giurls on-line. She found out about this and I told her everything about it. We decided to stick together and work through it. Last spring she accepted a job in Mexico teaching. I was going to quit my job and move down there with her. Obvisouly that didn;t work out as planned, in June we broke up because we both got tired of arguing. Looking back it was dumb because we both were just waiting for the other to put in the effort. Well over the summer I did the dumb thing of calling her lots. At the end of July I stopped calling and so she could have her space. Since the beginning of September we've been e-mailing each other a few times. Nothing special just generic and very brief. I have booked my flights for a backpacking trip through Australlia and SE asia and I;m hoping after that we somehow work out. The plan is.....if each step goes well I'll continue to the other 1) I'm going to send her a care package at the end of the month. 2) Before I leave for my trip I'll take a Christmas stocking to her parents house with some small gifts and ask them to bring it down with them when they go to Mexico for Christmas. 3) As I travel I'll send her a postcard every couple weeks. 4) hoping that during my travels or after she wants me to come and visit 5) I;d go down to visit and see where things take us. In the end if this doesn;t work then maybe when we unpack our boxes from our old apartment we mighthave another chance... Link to post Share on other sites
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