Sks Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Yes, I do make friends with girls easily. I don't think girls think I'm gay. They pretty much all know I've been with girls...and love women. SKS, does ur name stand for the rifle? So then they just are not interested in you, that is your problem - not theirs. Yes, my name is from a commie gun. Link to post Share on other sites
CandyGirlXO Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 SKS is really pissing me off. But everyone has the right to their opinions. I think there are attractive people of ALL races. Also where I live interracial relationships is not a big deal, it is very common. IMO mixed people are beautiful. Asians are gorgeous and have adorable babies. I would have no problem having a baby of ANY race, if I loved the guy. Don't worry about it. Link to post Share on other sites
IcemanJB Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I've always wanted to meet an albino. First of all, it's just an expression...second of all, I've been asked that before. (I'm not) Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 D's right; anywhere in Downtown Toronto (incl. U of T and Queens), Asians are the majority, not a minority. People of any race (white, black, Latino, whatever) with an Asian GF/BF seems to be more of the rule than the exception around here. 10000BC, you wouldn't have any problems finding a girl up here! ...Plus, our winters aren't as bad as in Chicago. D, you were a Marauder? Too cool! Did you ever get downtown to the parties in Hess Village? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I'm asian also and I don't know how valid of a point about race this guy makes of his situation or maybe it's just him lacking something to be successful with the ladies. Anyway in this day and age, there are places all over the world including America that will have advantages and disadvantages in regards to your skin color. If it's not working for you at the school, why not look elsewhere in the dating pool? My brother had very similar problems to you actually, he went to a private Uni upstate new york where the whites and the minorities are the same as your school and had the same complaints. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Share Posted October 6, 2008 Well, it isn't like i'm saying "race" is holding me back entirely, but it makes it extremely hard compared to other people I know. Maybe something else IS holding me back HERE, but I don't know what that is. Because in Europe, I didn't notice any handicap... Maybe I'm culturally more similar to...Europeans...?? Doubtful. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I know for a fact that if I had the same stuff but I was white, or even black I guess, it would be a lot easier. I've never been to San Fran, but I've heard good things! Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Maybe something else IS holding me back HERE, but I don't know what that is. Because in Europe, I didn't notice any handicap... I've traveled abroad on many occasions and I will have to agree with you actually. The women there are much more friendly and less cold than western women. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 First off stop calling this a north american problem and call it a small town canada problem. Second of course you were better with women when you were travling europe you were in a better state of mind (travel state of mind) and you were in cool destinations unlike ur small town canada that no one probably travels too... If its such a problem where you live transfer to a school in NYC or Miami or San Fransico... Look I kinda strongly resemble Middle easterns... yet I for the most part have no problem getting women, if anything my good looks are my strongest asset so pick yourself up and stop complaining about the hand you were dealt and do something about it Link to post Share on other sites
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Share Posted October 6, 2008 Well, whatever, the American guys who were with me...surprisingly enough...didn't get any even though they tried everyday. The girls were putt off by Frat-boy attitudes. Hey, I guess it isn't that surprising after all. They'd get girls back home on campus, but in Europe they are shunned. I ain't complaining, I didn't share their problems over there. European girls are hot! And know how to work it Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 your out of your mind and you really sound like you disrespect your friends... so how many euro girls did you sleep with? Link to post Share on other sites
Isolde Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I think many Asian guys are really cute and have been known to give them the eye. The problem I've had with them is they tend to be really, really shy or even defensive around non-Asian girls. Re. Europe: THE SAME THING HAPPENS TO ME! European men hit on me much much much MUCH more than Americans ever did. I have sort of strong features... more like Persian type features... and Euros seem to dig that more than Americans Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I think many Asian guys are really cute and have been known to give them the eye. The problem I've had with them is they tend to be really, really shy or even defensive around non-Asian girls. Re. Europe: THE SAME THING HAPPENS TO ME! European men hit on me much much much MUCH more than Americans ever did. I have sort of strong features... more like Persian type features... and Euros seem to dig that more than Americans I think some individuals are just more attracted to the exoticism type. How about putting up a 'hit on me' sign when you travel abroad? Link to post Share on other sites
Isolde Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I think some individuals are just more attracted to the exoticism type. How about putting up a 'hit on me' sign when you travel abroad? LOL, when I was in London, I might as well have been wearing one. Maybe it was just a weird coincidence, or maybe when I was travelling I exuded more confidence for some reason Link to post Share on other sites
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Share Posted October 6, 2008 Hey, just my anecdotal story. I'm not saying YOU can't get any because you're American. Those American frat guys were just people we knew. They weren't really our crowd because we weren't Frat-boy like. Didn't know of any other American guys otherwise, but my Dutch housemates talked about prior years where many, not all, faced the same problem. Half of it was beyond their control: American politics aren't popular in Europe...and half of it was the frat-boy attitude and talk about bombing other countries when they are rowdy and drunk. Canadians in fact aren't much better, but we don't have the negative image to begin with...so we're luckier... As for getting some? Well, after the first 2-3 weeks of getting settled or so...it was number after number, date after date, and mack after mack, until I left after the school year... At nightclubs chicks would come to grab my ass or openly ask me to dance/hookup...things that rarely happens in Canada. After a bit I fell for a Scandinavian blonde, so I just stuck with her No need in doing a diff girl every time and risk STIs right? Link to post Share on other sites
vonerik012 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Do you realize this sounds ridiculous? It is like me going to a small private Japanese school in a small Japanese town, striking out, ,and then claiming "Asian women don't like white guys!" Back in the states they like me! When will racism end? No matter what many women say, many do not want to date outside of their race. They do not admit this, because it does not sound PC. And if Caucasion girls do, often times when they date Arabs, Asians, Indians, it is their family that steps in and forces their son to find a more traditional girl of their same culture for marriage and family. I find it funny when some Arab men complain that white girls are racist, but come from a culture that very much so does not want their women sleeping with foreigners. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Share Posted October 6, 2008 ohhhh and European men love American women. Please don't feel offended...but it has a lot to do with European men thinking American girls are the easiest to have sex with... In our case it wasn't true, much to their chagrin, but just saying...girls...be wary of how they think about you! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 The guy was told that his race was a problem for them, so don't try to convince him that they are simply not that into him. If that's the reason, they wouldn't point out his race. 1000BC, it's true that most non-white men would go out with a white woman, but many white women are reluctant to date a man of another race. It's not that they look down on other races or judge them, as you suggested; I suppose it's a matter of staying within your own culture, religion, race, and everything that is familiar to you. Instead of feeling devastated about it, just date the girls who want to date you. Most of us have a problem finding the right person to date, regardless of who we are and what our race is. You don't need girls, so don't think about what all girls want - you need one girl who will be the right for you in every aspect. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Sks Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 The guy was told that his race was a problem for them, so don't try to convince him that they are simply not that into him. If that's the reason, they wouldn't point out his race. "Not that in to him", means they are not interested - no matter what the reason. I could say I am "not that into" someone for anything, it simply means I don't want to be with them. People try to be things they are not, that is when problems occur. If I go to China I don't expect to be treated like a Chinese person, as it is not who I am. I do not hate Chinese people, I respect them enough to know that I am not one of them and will never be one of them. They are unique both racially and culturally - I have no desire to change that. Link to post Share on other sites
CandyGirlXO Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I just wanted to add that I personally think Asians are one of the most attractive race as a whole in the world. With that being said I always notice Asians and have dated a few. I have heard that a lot of Asians families are against their children dating outside their race and that also goes within their race. For example Chinese has to date Chinese, not Japanese. So with that in mind when I see an atractive guy that is Asian I automatically think that their family might only accept their children if they date an Asian. This Korean guy I knew was dating a white girl and his famly disowned him. So I think that I have no chance. That could be the problem. Is this true? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 "Not that in to him", means they are not interested - no matter what the reason. I could say I am "not that into" someone for anything, it simply means I don't want to be with them. People try to be things they are not, that is when problems occur. If I go to China I don't expect to be treated like a Chinese person, as it is not who I am. I do not hate Chinese people, I respect them enough to know that I am not one of them and will never be one of them. They are unique both racially and culturally - I have no desire to change that. If a Chinese person goes to America, you feel they should always be treated as a lesser class citizen? Link to post Share on other sites
Sks Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 If a Chinese person goes to America, you feel they should always be treated as a lesser class citizen? They need to accept that they are not the same, white girls have no obligations to let Asian men have sex with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 They need to accept that they are not the same, white girls have no obligations to let Asian men have sex with them. Forget the dating aspect, just answer my question generally. Do you feel that a Chinese person in America, is a lesser class citizen? Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Somewhat but they all have European ancestry and have much closer traits, even then there are plenty of people who have no interest in marrying an Italian. To me the darker a female gets the more unattractive she becomes I also dislike Asian females faces. It would seem to be widely accepted that Northern European females are seen as close to perfection, if they were not they would not be so widely sought after by all races. Where do you get your facts from? This supposed "preference" comes from the times of slavery. Link to post Share on other sites
Sks Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Forget the dating aspect, just answer my question generally. Do you feel that a Chinese person in America, is a lesser class citizen? I answered this before, they are not the same. I know a few Asians, I always treat them with respect and they reciprocate it, but there is a definite understanding that we are different. Under the us law everyone is treated the same, assuming they are legally here. Beyond that, no one has any obligations to treat anyone else in a specific way. If a Asian hates white people, that is fine with me I don't expect to be liked by everyone and I understand people will dislike me for a variety of reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
CandyGirlXO Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 They need to accept that they are not the same, white girls have no obligations to let Asian men have sex with them. WTF?!?! How is this relevant to what TBF was saying? Where do you live, you seem very ignorant. You seem to be the white power type...umm it's 2008 and believe it or not there are more minorities in the US then white. You are the minority. Eventually everyone will be a mixed race, most already are. Link to post Share on other sites
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