EmperorR Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 i thought i blocked her guess it didn't work she messages me hey how are you doing, i just signed off I know it was rude but i just felt if i just msged her even one word, i'd be like back at square one. Link to post Share on other sites
crushed66 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 good job for being honest with yourself and following through. Link to post Share on other sites
CherishG Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I wish I could say "good job" but then I'd be lying to u by not telling u that it must of hurt like hell when she did that. It's probably brought out so many emotions of confusion, anger, sadness and made u feel even more lonelier... I'm on day 7 of complete NC, nothing from him, nothing from me, and believe me I'M FRICKIN DYING HERE... Only thing I can offer u is that we're here 4 u, and stay strong. We are all in this together Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 i thought i blocked her guess it didn't work she messages me hey how are you doing, i just signed off I know it was rude but i just felt if i just msged her even one word, i'd be like back at square one. hi i know it hurts but you did right.. a few words is not enough.. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Stick with NC, you're doing well. To address CherishG's perspective, I will use the shots analogy for NC. Getting shots is painful but sometimes, the best medicine to get into your system can only be administered by shots. The pain is fleeting, but at the end, when you start feeling better you'll say "Yeah. That needle poking thru my skin was worth it." Physical pain is different from the kind of pain you're experiencing right now, but I hope you won't discount the point I'm making. The pain of the heartbreak will pass. So... keep up with NC, if that's what you find is working best for you among the other options you can choose and have chosen. To quote one of my favorite lyrics right now "Just because something is difficult, doesn't mean it's impossible." Link to post Share on other sites
Author EmperorR Posted October 6, 2008 Author Share Posted October 6, 2008 it was extremely hard to do, these past twelve days I was hoping she would MSG but nothing I was so shocked yesterday. But I knew even if I said hey I'm fine, I'd get conned into talking for like half n hour and end up back at day one when I worked this hard to get to day 12. And yes it did hurt for twelve days nothing and then I get a MSG I just looked at it for five minutes. I felt like saying um you basically told me to get lost forget bout us, but I just took the high road and the weird thing I felt great. Link to post Share on other sites
lofi_tokyo Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Emp I totally know what you mean about like, taking the high road and feeling great. Last time I chatted with my ex, it was him trying to whine to me about his computer not working... and like... what was the point? I just made myself busy and I felt 100% good after. Like.. empowered. Its not much, but its crazy how good it feels to just like, not need the person who hurt you, and does not care about you anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
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