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Does a woman HAVE to flirt in order to ask her out?


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....do you even bother even asking her out for a first date?

 

Say a woman hasn't even flirted with you....do you still ask her out anyways?

 

I mean, does a woman HAVE to flirt in order for you to ask her out?

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For the most part, yes. Occasionally a guy will take a blind gamble and ask a girl out right away, but most often, he'll flirt with her for a bit first. This is not only to see what she's like, but to gauge her reaction to him. If she isn't flirting back, that's generally a sign that she's not interested. At this point, most guys will cut bait and move on.

 

Why? What happened?

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For the most part, yes. Occasionally a guy will take a blind gamble and ask a girl out right away, but most often, he'll flirt with her for a bit first. This is not only to see what she's like, but to gauge her reaction to him. If she isn't flirting back, that's generally a sign that she's not interested. At this point, most guys will cut bait and move on.

 

Why? What happened?

 

Johnny, actually I'm comparing 2 women.....one that I've kind of become "friends first" with...but she doesn't flirt all that much...but I think its only because she's goto her guard up around every guy that's been "swarming" her at some of these social gatherings. So she doesn't encourage anyone.

 

Then the other girl in the OTHER post I made, who was EXTREMELY flirtaceous with me...very touchy feely, I was kind of suprised because she only met me one time in the past, and chatted a short time. (Including her running her fingers through my hair, lol)

 

But....I was wondering if she was flirting for fun, which I know some due, which is sometimes NOT an indicator that she's interested.

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i dont care i'll just ask her out if she say yes then its on....she gotta flirt on the date or i wont be interested

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i dont care i'll just ask her out if she say yes then its on....she gotta flirt on the date or i wont be interested

 

Yeah, I'd still ask her out anyways...more than likely. Never hurts to ask, but I kind of get a kick out of women who complain that they are irritated by the guy who can't take a hint they aren't interested

 

They are thinking "What an idiot, I'm not flirting with him, and he still has the balls to ask me out? What a moron!"

 

Which I think is kind of unfair to the guy, because, knowing how women are, and often they run hot and cold from time to time, the men can't really be faulted for this, wouldn't you think?

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