rubendodge Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 Ok look this is a very sticky/confusing situation and I don't know what to do. Her: 1. She is 20 and is going to college to be a Special Ed teacher. 2. She is one of those nice girls which would do anything for anyone. 3. She goes to church with me and I have known her for 1 year. 4. She just got out of a serious engagement 1 year ago right before I started coming. She has her own car and still lives with her parents. 5. Lastly I know she knows that I like her and so do her parents but whats strange is out of nowhere she increased the time she'll talk with me from 2 minutes to 15 minutes within the last 1 month. Me: 1. I am 18 1/2 and am studying for the SAT 2 months from now. 2. I am going to go to Indiana University 1 month after my sat test. 3. I will be going to get a Bachelers Degree in Computer Science. 4. I don't have my own car or a job right now because the 2 cars I was promised for doing odd-jobs fell through and I never got them. Note: I am head over heals in love with her. I suspect she likes me but I'm not 100% sure. Everyone at church knows I like her so I believe she knows. I truly care about her and want to know what I should do next she says shes still not over her ex-fiance so I'm not sure when I should ask her out or whatever. I would ask her out but I'm still not sure if its the right thing to do and tbh without having a job to pay for a date I wouldn't be able to impress her much. Now I have 3 jobs that said I will probably get a interview this next week so I am hoping I will as the jobs are within 2 miles so I can walk their. If you need any more information (thats not personally identifiable) I will let you guys have it to help me make the best decision. I am still going to go up and get prayed for on October 19th about this because I do not want to make the wrong decision and push her away. Please write me back . Link to post Share on other sites
Author rubendodge Posted October 11, 2008 Author Share Posted October 11, 2008 Sorry for the double post but I REALLY need advice please if anyone knows what would be the best thing to do next please inform me? Link to post Share on other sites
lonelyandfrustrated Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 It's hard to tell just what you're looking for here. If it's advice whether you should ask her out or not, well, if you like her, ask her! If you're broke, do something cheap! If it's that you don't have a car so can't take her anywhere, well, work on that. Nobody is going to be able to tell you exactly how to approach this girl to be successful with her. We don't know either one of you, and even if we did, we still couldn't tell you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rubendodge Posted October 11, 2008 Author Share Posted October 11, 2008 Thanks for the reply dude I am considering asking her out so wish me luck . Link to post Share on other sites
lonelyandfrustrated Posted October 11, 2008 Share Posted October 11, 2008 Much luck to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author rubendodge Posted October 13, 2008 Author Share Posted October 13, 2008 Ok look heres and Update I was chatting with some people and found out one of them went and asked the girl I like "How do you feel about Ruben and the fact he likes you" and she said "Well I think it's just dandy" Then her aunt and uncle played 20 questions with me asking me about my past, my schooling, and my future goals. I talked with her for about 15 minutes and then let her get back to her buisness. AFter that her cousin said she is going to talk to her and see how exactly she feels about me. Anyways tell me what you guys think . Link to post Share on other sites
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