Please describe your worst break up...

[UnamedSeven]

I'm curious as to what your worst break up was. What did you do to try and get past and move on? was it easy to deal with the pain?

[trueblue72ny]

i dont know what my worst one was. there was never anything crazy. just hurt feelings, or i would text a lot or something stupid like that. sometimes i would have to endure the wrath of listening to some not to nice things from my woman. o i drove by once to see if she was being honest. but there was never anything like kick the door in or burn the house down with me. i have no interest in taking it to extremes. i try not to burn bridges overall. generally i dont hate unless i am realyl burnt.

 

i tried to keep busy with friends, or making new ones. for me finding comfort meant getting involved with another woman, or talking to women. that is the only thing that keeps me from going crazy. i try to keep busy to keep my mind off things. buts its not easy. there is no easy pill. its just cold hard pain of reality. and its not easy.

 

if they had an easy pill i would have ordered a bottle a long time ago.

[UnamedSeven]

i dont know what my worst one was. there was never anything crazy. just hurt feelings, or i would text a lot or something stupid like that. sometimes i would have to endure the wrath of listening to some not to nice things from my woman. o i drove by once to see if she was being honest. but there was never anything like kick the door in or burn the house down with me. i have no interest in taking it to extremes. i try not to burn bridges overall. generally i dont hate unless i am realyl burnt.

 

i tried to keep busy with friends, or making new ones. for me finding comfort meant getting involved with another woman, or talking to women. that is the only thing that keeps me from going crazy. i try to keep busy to keep my mind off things. buts its not easy. there is no easy pill. its just cold hard pain of reality. and its not easy.

 

if they had an easy pill i would have ordered a bottle a long time ago.

Yeah thanks for the experience. I tend to hold back most emotions to try and let them go later on.

[SushiX]

Worst break up is when they cheat on you. Mine was pretty bad. We went out for 3 yrs. She cheated on me twice. She begged for me back the first time and I was vulnerable that time and took her back. BIG MISTAKE. We argued alot after that and I never really forgot what she did to me and would always mention that when we fight.

 

After a while she seem distant from me and she didn't want to have sex anymore. I knew something was wrong. I checked her phone and found out she's been sleeping with another guy. I should have known!

 

The sad part is she lies about everything. She would never tell me anything until I find out. She even brags about how great he is after I found out. Doesn't she realize how evil she is? I don't know if she has a conscience. But all I know is karma's a bitch.

 

This hurt me alot. I went NC for 2 weeks. Posted myself on many dating sites just to meet new people so I don't think about her. Last week I met an awesome girl. Seems very honest and we like each other. Whenever I think about my ex now I just think of hateful things so I rather not.

 

You can say i'm on a rebound but I do sincerely like this new girl. We're taking it slow. Everything is great now. thank god i'm over my ex. One important lesson I learned from this is if you're not having sex regularly then something is wrong!

[Kamille]

Thinking about it I think my worst break up was the last one. It was just so shocking.

 

We were on rocky ground, but I told him I would have to move to another city and his immediate answer was: "Ah well, life is tearing us apart."

 

That was so cold. So cold. My god. I think I'm angry again. He kept telling me I was cold. He kept telling me I wasn't invested enough.

 

It doesn't sound awful when I reread it but believe me, it HURT.

 

It was easy to get over it though: who could love someone who could walk away that easily?

 

I say that, yet I still miss him.

[UnamedSeven]

Thinking about it I think my worst break up was the last one. It was just so shocking.

 

We were on rocky ground, but I told him I would have to move to another city and his immediate answer was: "Ah well, life is tearing us apart."

 

That was so cold. So cold. My god. I think I'm angry again. He kept telling me I was cold. He kept telling me I wasn't invested enough.

 

It doesn't sound awful when I reread it but believe me, it HURT.

 

It was easy to get over it though: who could love someone who could walk away that easily?

 

I say that, yet I still miss him.

Ugh. I just hope he knew that he had you, once he was gone, ya know? Those types of people, are looking for something more and seeing as you had to move, he must have decided to end it right then and there. Best thing to do is just try and get over what happened because he was never right for you in the first place.

 

 

Sushi: I'm sorry to hear about your situation too. I hope all is well with you and that you can move on also.

[LikeCharlotte]

I've had some really nasty experiences. One became abusive and then a stalker for over two years and wouldn't go away even after multiple restraining orders. One night I went out with a friend because my phone wouldn't stop ringing (I was afraid) and when I came home I found his footprints in the snow on my garage roof leading to my bedroom window. He called to ask me for a ride to the hospital (before restraining orders) and then scared me until I pulled over.... took the keys from my hand and locked me in my own car for hours until I finally made a play for my keys and ended up locking him in with the alarm. We were miles from anywhere i could walk to. It took a long time to finally be able to drive to safety.

 

He came into my house when I was alone and woke me up demanding things that he decided were his - including a shirt I was wearing - demanded that I get half naked and not replace the shirt and when I refused he put my head through the wall. I had to get a knife and keep him from pulling the phone from the wall while I called the police. He killed my pets, I am glad they were fish and amphibians - not my cat.

 

I eventually moved to a place I thought he couldn't find me but I was wrong. I had to make new friends and change my whole life. No matter what I did he would find me and it would start all over again. He did anything he could to get close to new people I met in order to sabotage my life and make me "need" him. Another time he talked his way into my new apartment when I was not at home (I had to move several times) and used my phone to call himself so that when we went to court he could say that I was calling him. Another night he was in my yard with friends of his drinking on my back deck and I woke up at 1am hearing his voice and had to call for help to get him to leave. Yet another time we were in a club and he grabbed my hand as if to shake it (I didn't let him, he forced it) and put a cigarette out on my hand.

 

He kidnapped me out of a convenience store parking lot and held me hostage for an entire weekend until I told him that I would get back together with him. I wont even get into what he did to me while I was still with him and could not get away. I could go on for hours but I will not. Suffice to say - it was horrible and I wish it on no living being.

[LikeCharlotte]

I just wanted to add that his was many years ago (following other traumas) and it has taken a very long time to get past the pain and fear but I did it.

[CherishG]

My worst break up is the one I'm having right now

I can't compete with the other members by saying that my pain is far more painful than yours, but I will say,

the situation I'm dealing with is complicated than most.

I have a baby involved, and the pain of knowing that he threw away all the dreams we made.

It's virtually impossible to do NC, ever... because we need to communicate in regards to our daughter.

And by this punishment, it's making it so incredibly hard to get over him.

People have advised me on here to "separate the two...being a parent to our daughter and a EX GF"...

well how is that possible when I'm not given the opportunity to get over him if I'm still in contact with him?

How is it possible to stop being IN LOVE with him, when I look into my daughter's eyes and see him?

or remember all the things we did when we were still together?

People have advised to use a "proxy" or have friends exchange our daughter for his visits...

I don't have really anyone down here since I moved here, family is far away on a different continent... So I'm stuck.

All the promises and years of sharing friendship and love, all gone...

All I have left of him is my daughter, and she's the reason I'm surviving each day...

[SoundTribe]

my worst break up was the only break up i ever had. it was traumatic and still fresh in my head. it was my first love and it burned.

[UnamedSeven]

Oh... I'm really sorry Cherish. Did he leave you with the child? I'm kind of confused but either way, your situation is just flat out horrible. I can't say too much that could really help. Might i suggest trying to be with the baby more so that it may cancel out your sadness and allow you to be with the baby?

[EmperorR]

right now, been over a month still feel like crap, lost like 15lbs, still cant sleep proper, 23 days No contact, she cheated on me, is there any worse feeling than being cheated on?

[SushiX]

is there any worse feeling than being cheated on?

 

Probably not. It's really painful when you've been cheated on. I'm trying to prevent it from ever happening to me. I truly envy those players who don't have any hearts to be broken. They are the heartbreakers, not the broken hearted. They always have hoodrats on the side waiting for them. Maybe I should be one too.

[Lovelost978]

First relationship, an LDR ended by way of no more phone calls and the guy just disappeared. No fights, no nothing, just gone, no explanation.

 

Got dumped twice in the second relationship. First time I came home and he was there with a friend and just said "I'm moving out"- no explanation. Second time after living together 3 years was when I ran into him on a date with someone else. Yay.

 

Third relationship was great, I thought this was it. He dumped me after 3 months telling me he just wasnt attracted to me, he was basically just wanted to test some viagra the doctor gave him...nice...

 

Most recent relationship was another LDR, as if I didnt learn my lesson the first time. After 6 months and only a few weeks after exchanging "I love you's" I started getting no calls when he said he would call. After 4 days had lapsed since he said he'd call I got worried and called his parents. His mom called him and proceeded to bitch him out and made him call me. He told me he was at a "friends" house and didnt have good reception, I asked what was really going on and he admitted that he spent the weekend with another woman. I never expected that from this guy since he was distraught after his wife cheated on him and always talked about it as if cheating on someone was the worst thing in the world.

Anyways...I am starting to believe its something I am doing...I havent dated or anything since that breakup 3 years ago...Ive lost all trust and feel as if I have no emotions left...

[CherishG]

Oh... I'm really sorry Cherish. Did he leave you with the child? I'm kind of confused but either way, your situation is just flat out horrible. I can't say too much that could really help. Might i suggest trying to be with the baby more so that it may cancel out your sadness and allow you to be with the baby?

 

I have full custody of our daughter, she lives with me full time.

We have no court type drama asking for custody or visitation rights...

He doesn't even give child support, and I'm not going to ask because I know he's struggling with school.

I spend almost all my free time now with my baby, and believe me, it makes me more sad...

I look at her, I see her dad... uggghh, it's a big mess

[RainbowBlue]

CherishG I am so sorry. I know its hard. You gotta 'let go' but you also have to give yourself time to grieve. I have a great book called "Rebuilding After You Relationship Ends" I recommend it. If I was you I would have set times and days that he sees your beautiful baby - so if its every second Friday - then you only have to deal with him then. Find it in your heart to let go, he is your past but he will always be a part of your life because you have this baby. Aim to get to a point that you can talk positively to your child about her father. Look after yourself. When you are ok on your own, you will find someone else will come into your life. But my advice is to grieve, let yourself grieve in a healthy way, and then work on letting go. Find acceptance of the breakup. And you may not feel like it but oneday you will be ok.

 

My worst breakup was this one. I spent my entire adult life with this man, building dreams and going through so much side by side. He had alot of troubles and I stood by him through so much. After 20 years his business started to fail and he got really stressed. He made friends with a woman, and told me about it. No problem - we always had a trusting relationship. He told me they got on really well and she had marriage problems. Ok. Then he said she needed work and wanted to work at his office, but he would only do that if it was ok with me. I said its ok, but only if you don't have 'special' feelings for her and contain them. He assured me they were just close friends. So she works there and he starts coming home late - she needed to talk as she had a fight with her husband.... that sort of thing. The phone calls from her get more frequent and start happening until midnight. I start to question it. He tells me he thinks he loves her, I tell him we are over (ok I skipped a bit in there) and he says he just doesn't know what to do. I stay for 6 months and then tell him we are over. He doesn't seem to care. He has nowhere to go, he is flat broke as his business is now collapsed. So I move into the spare bedroom. He starts dating using online dating websites - he gets calls from women, texts, emails, spends alot of his time at home internet chatting with them. I start not wanting to come home after work, I am a complete mess. I ask him nicely to either leave or if he can't just not date while he stays with me. He keeps dating. I get more broken. I fight for our relationship, we were best friends, soulmates...I'm thinking he is going through some midlife crisis. We reconcile 3 months later but 2 months after that I find out he is still acting like he is single to other women by email and text and online chats. He is not sleeping with them but the flirting is very clear and big betrayal of me. I find out, I confront him, he says its just meaningless, he is being silly, he will stop. He promises. He even changes phones. But I catch him at it again. Then he makes a massive promise that we move out to anew place together and start again. 4 days after the move I find he has not stopped. I kick him out. I was and am more heartbroken that I ever thought possible. The pain at times is unbearable. I have to keep in touch because there are debts in my name and I will go bankrupt without his help. He wants to stay friends, but he hurts me even as friends, telling me about dates, asking for other woman's phone number in front of me, telling me he will give me money or something I really need and not do it again and again. he says he loves me and he is trying hard, but I can see I always am not a priority - I am, but so much else comes first. 2 weeks ago he said he realised how stupid he was and wanted to reconcile. I said no. He said it was ok, it will take time but he will do whatever it takes to win me back. In that time he has not sent flowers, not done anything romantic or special...of the kind that a woman would expect if a man was going to 'fight' for her love. So I have decided enough is enough, I am going to start to date. I have to move on. But its so hard to let go of someone you shared so much with, someone you grew with for so long, someone who you thought you would grow old with.

 

I wrote a poem 3 weeks ago

 

If only you could see the tears

In the world you left behind

If only you could hear how my heart

Cries out for what we had

 

Even when I close my eyes

There is an image of your face

But instead of dreams

Only nightmares come

 

My soul has died

Its keeping for the lonely

Since the day that you were gone

Oh why did your heart leave me

 

In my heart you were the only one

And your memory lives on

Why did your heart leave me

I miss you so much

 

Walking down the streets

My heart is empty

Soulless and in pain

I thought our love would never end

 

How could I be so wrong

About your love for me

Thinking it would was always going to be there

Until the end of time

 

I know you went through a hard time

It was hard for me too

But I believed, I believed so much

That love would bring us back to you and me

If only you could have seen it

 

Why did your heart leave me

Didn't it know I would be forever broken

I was always there for your heart, through thick and thin

And now I more than ever I know that life and love is so unfair

[UnamedSeven]

CherishG I am so sorry. I know its hard. You gotta 'let go' but you also have to give yourself time to grieve. I have a great book called "Rebuilding After You Relationship Ends" I recommend it. If I was you I would have set times and days that he sees your beautiful baby - so if its every second Friday - then you only have to deal with him then. Find it in your heart to let go, he is your past but he will always be a part of your life because you have this baby. Aim to get to a point that you can talk positively to your child about her father. Look after yourself. When you are ok on your own, you will find someone else will come into your life. But my advice is to grieve, let yourself grieve in a healthy way, and then work on letting go. Find acceptance of the breakup. And you may not feel like it but oneday you will be ok.

 

My worst breakup was this one. I spent my entire adult life with this man, building dreams and going through so much side by side. He had alot of troubles and I stood by him through so much. After 20 years his business started to fail and he got really stressed. He made friends with a woman, and told me about it. No problem - we always had a trusting relationship. He told me they got on really well and she had marriage problems. Ok. Then he said she needed work and wanted to work at his office, but he would only do that if it was ok with me. I said its ok, but only if you don't have 'special' feelings for her and contain them. He assured me they were just close friends. So she works there and he starts coming home late - she needed to talk as she had a fight with her husband.... that sort of thing. The phone calls from her get more frequent and start happening until midnight. I start to question it. He tells me he thinks he loves her, I tell him we are over (ok I skipped a bit in there) and he says he just doesn't know what to do. I stay for 6 months and then tell him we are over. He doesn't seem to care. He has nowhere to go, he is flat broke as his business is now collapsed. So I move into the spare bedroom. He starts dating using online dating websites - he gets calls from women, texts, emails, spends alot of his time at home internet chatting with them. I start not wanting to come home after work, I am a complete mess. I ask him nicely to either leave or if he can't just not date while he stays with me. He keeps dating. I get more broken. I fight for our relationship, we were best friends, soulmates...I'm thinking he is going through some midlife crisis. We reconcile 3 months later but 2 months after that I find out he is still acting like he is single to other women by email and text and online chats. He is not sleeping with them but the flirting is very clear and big betrayal of me. I find out, I confront him, he says its just meaningless, he is being silly, he will stop. He promises. He even changes phones. But I catch him at it again. Then he makes a massive promise that we move out to anew place together and start again. 4 days after the move I find he has not stopped. I kick him out. I was and am more heartbroken that I ever thought possible. The pain at times is unbearable. I have to keep in touch because there are debts in my name and I will go bankrupt without his help. He wants to stay friends, but he hurts me even as friends, telling me about dates, asking for other woman's phone number in front of me, telling me he will give me money or something I really need and not do it again and again. he says he loves me and he is trying hard, but I can see I always am not a priority - I am, but so much else comes first. 2 weeks ago he said he realised how stupid he was and wanted to reconcile. I said no. He said it was ok, it will take time but he will do whatever it takes to win me back. In that time he has not sent flowers, not done anything romantic or special...of the kind that a woman would expect if a man was going to 'fight' for her love. So I have decided enough is enough, I am going to start to date. I have to move on. But its so hard to let go of someone you shared so much with, someone you grew with for so long, someone who you thought you would grow old with.

 

I wrote a poem 3 weeks ago

 

If only you could see the tears

In the world you left behind

If only you could hear how my heart

Cries out for what we had

 

Even when I close my eyes

There is an image of your face

But instead of dreams

Only nightmares come

 

My soul has died

Its keeping for the lonely

Since the day that you were gone

Oh why did your heart leave me

 

In my heart you were the only one

And your memory lives on

Why did your heart leave me

I miss you so much

 

Walking down the streets

My heart is empty

Soulless and in pain

I thought our love would never end

 

How could I be so wrong

About your love for me

Thinking it would was always going to be there

Until the end of time

 

I know you went through a hard time

It was hard for me too

But I believed, I believed so much

That love would bring us back to you and me

If only you could have seen it

 

Why did your heart leave me

Didn't it know I would be forever broken

I was always there for your heart, through thick and thin

And now I more than ever I know that life and love is so unfair

Such a Beautiful poem. It could sum up anybodys relationship problems all in that one poem. It makes me sad the way peoples lives are treated everyday b/c of the carelessness of others.

 

I would really wait on dating. There really isn't any room in your life for anyone at all. After what he did to you, it just isn't fair. I would highly suggest going No Contact as much as you can, unless if it is completely unavoidable.

 

You have to know that there isn't a spot for someone special there, just yet. Over much, much, time, your heart will start to recover. The pain is ever lasting, but only to a certain extent. The pain merely becomes a scar that just stays with you, but can't be gone.

[realitycheck1111]

Worst break up you say? one break up years ago I caught my ex-gf in a bar with another guy. Walked up to both of them, and told them both to F$$$ $$$. This was a long long time ago, and glad its behing me. Kind of goig thru the same thing now.

[Catwoman67]

...breakup was when I was 22 - I met this guy - I absolutely flipped for him - and he broke my heart time and time again... I met up with him earlier this year - he is very religious now and feels bad about how he treated me. I have been seeing him - but hope I can look past what he did...

 

One of the worst - I've had many - I was going out with a guy for 2 years, I was very insecure, anyway, he ended up leaving me a letter, taking all his stuff out of my place while I was at work. I literally thought my heart was going to explode, I was absolutely devasted... Anyway, I had to go back to work and explain why I had lost 10 pounds in one week - he and I were supposed to go away that week. Absolutely horrible - the pain was just unbearable - I wanted to die...

[Surfer Girl]

Being so naive by getting into a relationship that he never mentioned ex-girlfriend.... It was much later I learned he was still seeing her.... I went to the house only to find she opened the door... and she was all about hurting me by letting me know how they had been seeing each other and revealing to me how they had been engaged, he had slept with her behind my back.... it was horrible....

[81West]

First relationship, an LDR ended by way of no more phone calls and the guy just disappeared. No fights, no nothing, just gone, no explanation.

 

Got dumped twice in the second relationship. First time I came home and he was there with a friend and just said "I'm moving out"- no explanation. Second time after living together 3 years was when I ran into him on a date with someone else. Yay.

 

Third relationship was great, I thought this was it. He dumped me after 3 months telling me he just wasnt attracted to me, he was basically just wanted to test some viagra the doctor gave him...nice...

 

Most recent relationship was another LDR, as if I didnt learn my lesson the first time. After 6 months and only a few weeks after exchanging "I love you's" I started getting no calls when he said he would call. After 4 days had lapsed since he said he'd call I got worried and called his parents. His mom called him and proceeded to bitch him out and made him call me. He told me he was at a "friends" house and didnt have good reception, I asked what was really going on and he admitted that he spent the weekend with another woman. I never expected that from this guy since he was distraught after his wife cheated on him and always talked about it as if cheating on someone was the worst thing in the world.

Anyways...I am starting to believe its something I am doing...I havent dated or anything since that breakup 3 years ago...Ive lost all trust and feel as if I have no emotions left...

 

I just wanted to say that I found your post heartbreaking. You have experienced many - too many - emotionally traumatic losses at the hands of people who should have treated you better. All those man had every right to end their relationships with you if that's what they wanted, but they owed you better endings. Endings that were not so cruel and the emotional equivalent of a devastating punch in the face.

 

I'm really sorry these have been your experiences. I hope you can heal yourself and date smarter, whatever that means. Never doubt that you didn't deserve these things, and that there are good people out there who will treasure your place in their lives and treat you with love and respect.

[Isis1808]

My worst break up was with my first love. It was many years ago but it took me a very loong time to get over. To make the story short, i convinced him to join the military since he had left school and quit his job and couldnt find another one. We were good and happy at first, i would visit him out where he was stationed and he would come back home to see me. One day he calls me ( i remember this like it was yesterday) drunk, and asks me if i would still be with him if he told me that he got another girl pregnant, he also asked me if i was willing to be a step-mother. I was vivid, sad, depressed, everything, at this point. The next day he called me and asked me why i hadnt called him and i told him what happened the night b4 and he didnt remember that he said that to me. I asked him question after question and after about 5 minutes he fessed up and told me everything. He said that the reason he did anything with her was b/c i had told him that i didnt want to move in with him where he was at the time, (mind you, the reason was b/c i wanted to finish school first, i was almost graduating and dropping out wasnt an option). I was soo hurt, i lost soo much weight, didnt eat and would cry most of the day.

 

After that he just kept hurting me b/c he kept leading me on by telling me that he still loved me and missed me and wanted to make a family with me, he even came home to visit me. It was the worst cause it felt like the pain just didnt end. All this mistrust and bad experience has stayed with me and its been really hard for me to trust and be open with anyone.

[Ruby Slippers]

My worst was my first serious one. After I left him, we were back and forth, on and off for YEARS. It sucked, and I wasted a lot of time. Since then, I have never looked back after a relationship -- case closed, every time.

 

I got some small satisfaction from learning from the ex-in-question's mother (who adores me to this day) that all his girlfriends since me have complained that he compares them to me -- in the kitchen, in their social life, and in the bedroom. Obviously, he's as stupid and insensitive as ever, and it's kind of comforting to know that.

[alwayssme]

this is my worst break-up and the only time i have been truly heartbroken..i never used to beleive in letting others hurt me, i could never understand why so many people would hurt over love..i was skeptical and then i finally fell in love with my ex, everything was perfect we were always together, it was a great relationship...i had NEVER been that happy! I was immature and got into so many arguments, we did have our problems cause of course every couple does but he reassured me that our love was strong we could get over anything...he told me loved me and yada yada..i thought i was in heaven and was going to marry him. then one day we get into an argument and he breaks up with me saying he has no feelings left for me, whats so ever! I know it may not sound as bad but it was the WORST pain i have ever felt. on top of being heartbroken, i was shocked! i still can't get over it and it's still hard to beleive. he is so so so different now and it is ruining my life! i never understood what happened because he couldn't give me an explanation...and when people ask me "how is you and X" i feel miserable when i see how shocked they are to hear we broke up. nobody expected this especially me...if there was anyone that proved his love to me was him, he acted like he would have went to the moon and came back for me and one day he lost the love? its devastating...true love is supposed to overcome all obstacles..i still don't know what happened but this change has tramuatized me, i'm not the same.

 

 

it's MUCH worse than it sounds...because the way we were with each other. i feel like the person i love has died. to have the one you love tell you that they don't love you anymore...randomly one day...it hurts more than anything!

[UnamedSeven]

this is my worst break-up and the only time i have been truly heartbroken..i never used to beleive in letting others hurt me, i could never understand why so many people would hurt over love..i was skeptical and then i finally fell in love with my ex, everything was perfect we were always together, it was a great relationship...i had NEVER been that happy! I was immature and got into so many arguments, we did have our problems cause of course every couple does but he reassured me that our love was strong we could get over anything...he told me loved me and yada yada..i thought i was in heaven and was going to marry him. then one day we get into an argument and he breaks up with me saying he has no feelings left for me, whats so ever! I know it may not sound as bad but it was the WORST pain i have ever felt. on top of being heartbroken, i was shocked! i still can't get over it and it's still hard to beleive. he is so so so different now and it is ruining my life! i never understood what happened because he couldn't give me an explanation...and when people ask me "how is you and X" i feel miserable when i see how shocked they are to hear we broke up. nobody expected this especially me...if there was anyone that proved his love to me was him, he acted like he would have went to the moon and came back for me and one day he lost the love? its devastating...true love is supposed to overcome all obstacles..i still don't know what happened but this change has tramuatized me, i'm not the same.

 

 

it's MUCH worse than it sounds...because the way we were with each other. i feel like the person i love has died. to have the one you love tell you that they don't love you anymore...randomly one day...it hurts more than anything!

I had a similar thing happen to me recently. I had never, ever, felt this way about this girl. Everything was perfect and we were the Ideal couple, Despite our age difference (being 2 years). My friends thought that i couldn't get anybody else better and i just never listened to them.

 

We didn't care at all about anyone else. we never fought, always held hands, and loved each other.

 

One day, she decided to just end everything with a lie to protect herself from telling me the truth that i still don't know. I hated her for that and still called b/c she agreed that we would still talk twice a day. Not only that, but she still said that she loved me. I can still wage my life on it, that, if i ever saw her again, i would jump right back into my old feelings like i was never hurt by her.