My Eyez Hypnotiz Posted August 25, 2003 Share Posted August 25, 2003 Hey, there is this guy i really like...he's one in a million! he's 17 ( im 16) and he already has a nice job, a very good score on his G.E.D, he's honest, responsibe, good lookin..lol you know what i mean, hes everything i want in a guy! Anyway, to the point. we fooled around for a couple of weeks and we both liked each other, he told his friends and i told mine, and it was great! well....i went to NC for a week and when i came back he's the first person i called! i missed him so much, well, he seemed annoyed and busy so i appologized to him if i interrupted anything and tryed to put it in the back of my mind and told myself i was over reacting ( i was exspecting him to be glad to talk to me too..) Well...come to find out, him and his ex (hm...) saw each other again and "supposively" fell back inlove but i heard she did him REALLY wrong the 1st time, and i was told im the only one who ever made him feel important...so if this is true, why is he back w/ her? i mean...i even carry conversations w/ his mom and she tells me the things he said (good things) about me (this was last week) but he hasnt called me in about 3 1/2 weeks... i honestly dont know what to think, but im doing a good job of keeping him off my mind and not calling to talk to him, but i do call to talk to his mom, should i stop calling all together...and wait to see if he realizes he made a mistake...or drop him like he's hot...?? Link to post Share on other sites
Kay Posted August 26, 2003 Share Posted August 26, 2003 If you honestly feel that you have to "win him over," then maybe he's not the one for you? My advice is to back off, be friendly, but let him come to you if in fact he is interested. Do you really want to be his "second choice" every time he and his ex have problems? You are young and at a wonderful time in your life. Enjoy the people around you and all that life offers you right now. I'll bet if you do, you'll likely find that there are many good looking guys who would love a chance to meet you! Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted August 26, 2003 Share Posted August 26, 2003 Remember you shouldn’t ever need to WIN a man over! Attraction, love etc… should be a natural and spontaneous thing. Don’t go for someone that you have to win over! If it’s going to happen it just will! Just let him do his thing and see what he does! He needs to prove to you that he wants you remember! Otherwise, BE GONE WITH HIM! ~PurpleAngel Link to post Share on other sites
Diller076 Posted August 27, 2003 Share Posted August 27, 2003 Hey there, Hope i can help you out. I'll give you the guys point of view, since i've been there. I have also done the same thing hes doing to you, with my ex. I had met someone that i liked alot and connected with, we dated for about a month, Intel my ex-girlfriend came back into my life. Ex's have alot of power over you, especially if you dated for a while. The reason i screwed (i regret it) over the girl i was seeing, for my ex, is because i was still in love with her, and it was just easier. The way i look at it is he went back to her because he is comfortable with her, and its just plain easier to continue an old relationship rather than a new one. If i were you i'd lay way low, even if they break up. He's gonna think he can run back to you if all else fails. If he does come back to you, which he will, tell him your not gonna stand for what he has done to you and that if he really liked you he would wait Intel your sure hes not gonna run back to her again. Good luck, be careful......... Don't give into him Intel your sure. Dill Link to post Share on other sites
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