whichwayisup Posted October 25, 2008 Share Posted October 25, 2008 I'm just trying to find ways to distract myself and not be so "heavy" into her. And just be friends....which gets kinda hard when she does things like put her hand on my cheek or play with my pants pockets on my cargo pants at work. Tell her no when she goes to touch you, or move back from her. All that is doing damage to you, bit by bit. I don't think you can even handle a 'casual' friendship, you're too emotionally attached and invested. I'm not sure how you can distance yourself from her especially when you still make plans to hang out with her..(see next reply below) So the less exposure has been nice. We planned to hang out tonight as just friends but I think I was fooling myself on that. She cancelled on me cause her husband wanted to talk things over and was home. I know she had a rough week and I kinda thought we would just play with the kids and sit down have pizza and watch a movie. Have pizza, hang out with (her) kids, watch a movie?? Come on! You need to STOP hanging out with her outside of work. Deal with her when you have to at work, that's it. You mean to tell me, that if her husband wasn't home, you were planning on going over there? Maybe you need to re-read your earlier post about him freaking out when he kept calling to talk to her at work, and you said you kind of felt bad for the guy. You shouldn't be going over to her house, whether he's there or not! It's just wrong, and deep down you know this... Link to post Share on other sites
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