PracticalShade Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 Girlfriend's ex boyfriend.. they broke up after being off and on for two years and friends for several years before that. Ugly break up about a month and a half before we got together. We've been together for about 5 months. Out of necessity, she ends up talking to him the other day and he apologizes. Now she's okay with him. I am angry because: 1)I've been taking the crap that this particular guy caused, and in some ways still dealing with. Now she's alright with him? I kinda feel betrayed like she got me on her side and then changed sides. 2)During the conversation where he apologized, he tried to get her to talk and reminisce in their past!! (Which she told him was inappropriate, but still.) Oh did I mention he's engaged? I find that messed up. I feel he has crossed the line and don't like the idea of him in her life at all. She feels that she still wants him in her life even if they aren't gonna be close friends and that I'm just having trust issues. To her, I should trust her to tell him when he's being inappropriate To me, since he was disrespectful to both his new relationship AND hers, I should trust her to know better than to be okay with being friends with him. I feel that if I am this uncomfortable with this particular guy in her life (and rightfully so from my perspective) that she should respect that. Am I crazy in thinking so? All opinions welcome, but I would especially like some Christians views on this, seeing how she and I are active Christians and spiritual. Link to post Share on other sites
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