Mylife Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 How do you know when you are? I know you can't have everything you imagined to have in your man. But where do you draw the line on compromising on one thing over the other. I love this guy, but I don't know whats missing. Is it just the missing him in an LDR? Is there chemisty lacking? Am I not able to define what Love actually is? I am feeling really devasted...I don't know why. I can see my life with him, but he is just not everything, point to point that I wanted. He has some of the qualities, but not all. Does the perfect man, the one made for you, have everything? I don't want to leave him, because I don't know why I will be. Should I just give it time? Its been 6 months to the relationship and I am going to see him Nov 7th, 5 hours drive. He is only my second bf and I am not the type to just "break up" just like that. (Snaps finger) If you know what I mean. He is in school, his last year. He stayed back because a girl in his previous years led him on and then ditched him and he messed up all his grades. He gets upset because of that, and I am worried about his future if I do the same. If he messes up again, there is no turning back. I don't want to hurt him, and I am hurting myself. I just can't figure anything out. If you read my previous posts, sometimes I feel its because he is insecure, sometimes I feel I have issues with his looks, sometimes I feel the spark is missing and sometimes I feel him to be too clingy. I don't know what to do? I don't want to leave, but its so hard to give it time and see what comes of it. Just make the nasty feeling go away... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mylife Posted October 15, 2008 Author Share Posted October 15, 2008 I feel sick to my stomach...and falling behind in school... Link to post Share on other sites
vanilla87 Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 So the truth about the perfect guy? There is no perfect guy, if there was he probably be some one faking being perfect. The guy that is great for you will have flaws, even some that might annoy you 6 months later. But if you care about someone its not going to seem like the end of the world where as if its someone you don't, it'll be worse. No relationship is perfect, but thats how it is. Link to post Share on other sites
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