ate_the_paint Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 It's been six months since the breakup and I was left with our cat. Two days ago I came home from work and he had been attacked by a dog. I tried to get him to the vet's but he died in the car. I just don't seem to get a break. For some reason I'm feeling like the breakup just happened all over again. I miss my cat. I miss my ex. I miss the life I used to have. I'm just barely keeping myself together. Guess all that hurt was just waiting below the surface for something to bring it all out. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 ouch … I'm really sorry about the loss of your kitty, because I know he was prolly a true source of unconditional love ... Link to post Share on other sites
CherishG Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 **hugs** sorry to hear about your cat. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 Awww.....that is so sad about your kitty. I am so sorry. You really did not need this in your life right now, did you? I wish I could do or say something to make you feel better but I just don't know what that would be. I'm just so sorry, dear. Link to post Share on other sites
lofi_tokyo Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 My ex broke up with me, and only one month and two weeks in my cat was diagnosed with cancer and given a week to live (thats one week ago). Her time is nearly up, and it feels like it has come at a terrible time... but that being said, she had a wonderful 21 years (old for a cat!!). I'm 19, so shes actually older than ME! I'm terrified of the pain thats going to come when she dies. Will it bring me back to square one with my ex? I am really hoping not. Only time will tell. Until then, I am living life, and loving my cat... shes so friendly, I'll miss her, shes like my sister! Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 How awful! I am so sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Billie63 Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 One of our cats was knocked down and killed three weeks ago, four months after our split. My ex howled like a baby down the phone when he told me. it is devastating and even more so when you've broken up - I couldn't stop crying and part of me blamed my ex for the death. Three weeks later it's better, the tears dry. I've always had cats and I've always believed when one dies you should get another - the responsibility of caring for a kitten or a rescue cat can take your mind of the death. There will always be cats out there needing a good home and you cat owners have proven you're up to the task. Link to post Share on other sites
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