How do i get her alone and what do i say when i do that?

[littletross2005]

I am going to meet this girl soon and i do not know what i am going to say. What should i say and every time i do say something it has really nothing to do with her because usually there are people around. How do i get her alone and what do i say when i do that?

Your help will be greatly appreciated thanks.

[Bronzepen]

Just pick a general topic. Ask her what movies does she like, what's her favorite all time movie? Where has she gone on vacations, where has she always dreamed of going? You get the picture.

 

Joke around, have fun. Tease her. Tell her you've always wanted to skydive but you have this phobia against parachutes. I don't know...

 

Bottom line, just be yourself and talk to her like you would talk to a friend.

[Thor]

It also helps if you know some things about her. Things that she likes or dislikes or similar topics. By taking an interest in the things that you know she likes will differentiate you and the other people in her circle. Just don't be fake about it though. Take a genuine interest in the things that she likes, and there may be a distinct possibility that she will start thinking to herself...Hmm, this could be an interesting relationship. Just don't be too friendly as that will lead to you being considered as a friend to her.

[Jim24]

I agree with Thor's plan. Just don't do too much asking around or it will seem stalkerish. As I told someone else, the worst thing that can happen when you ask to speak to a girl alone is that her friends will laugh. This makes you both feel awkward, so you probably will both want to get away to talk to each other, so don't worry. Just smile and try not to show signs of nervousness.