Lizzie60 Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 2-3 weeks ago.. I was bored at work and sent an email to an 'old' ex.. we dated for almost 2 years and ended it 4 years ago.. he moved back to Toronto after his studies.. He was 27 back then... He had a gf back in Toronto. I told him about my little treasure and sent him some pictures. I was just curious as to what he was up to.. When he left (4 yrs ago) he came back for one weekend about 6 months later.. and, for me, it wasn't the same.. I was over him... it was different for some reason.. Today I got an email from him.. he's in OTTAWA... he moved back here with his gf.. he said he's hoping to get married soon.. (same girl, they've been together for over 7 years I think, maybe more). He wrote he still think about me alot.. and would like to hook up again sometimes for a coffee.. OMG this guy was a hottie.. African-American.. just like I love them.. we had a good time.. weekends in Montreal.. we had so much fun together and the sex was amazing.. Link to post Share on other sites
annieo Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 lizzie, stop bragging. Do you have a question/query/conundrum? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 17, 2008 Author Share Posted October 17, 2008 lizzie, stop bragging. Do you have a question/query/conundrum? nope.. no question/query/conundrum.. Link to post Share on other sites
annieo Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 Well, lucky girl you! What the hell are you doing here then, on a crisp and romantic fall night? You should be out, raking up the burning embers of days gone by. And not to be your mother or anything, but maybe take into consideration of the feelings of the fiancee. Is that silly and old-fashioned for me to say? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 18, 2008 Author Share Posted October 18, 2008 hum.. I have spent most of the evening chatting on MSN with him... He asked me if he could call me.. we had fun chatting together.. he wants to see me again.. oh oh.. that could turn bad.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 18, 2008 Author Share Posted October 18, 2008 we chatted for almost 2 hours tonite.. and it brought back so many good memories.. I just can't believe that we're so close together again.. we talked about the good times we had.. WOW.. it feels weird.. I haven't seen him in over 4 years.. we dated for 2 years.. six years.. geezz time flies.. he's 35 now.. he looked very much like Denzel..but a little bit slimmer in the face.. very cute.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 19, 2008 Author Share Posted October 19, 2008 Wow.. I'm still chatting with him again tonite.. he wants to see me again. Men are all the same.. it's been 4 years.. and he asked me if I was thinking about him.. I said not really since he had moved back to Toronto.. and it was OK.. yadayada.. Then he said I was on his mind all this time.. he never stopped thinking about me.. What a ... Now he just wrote that he dreamt about me last night.. he said it must have been the chat we had.. He's very slow to type.. so while he's writing.. I'm checking LS.. I just asked him to tell me about his dream.. that could take a while.. he probably type with one finger.. Ah les hommes.. tous des menteurs.. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted October 19, 2008 Share Posted October 19, 2008 C'mon lizzie, as you've said, this could be bad. you're old enough to know the temptations here. Why would you do this to another woman? Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Bird Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 C'mon lizzie, as you've said, this could be bad. you're old enough to know the temptations here. Why would you do this to another woman? If I read correctly... Lizzie and this guy have know each other for 6 years, they dated for 2 years, he has been with his girlfriend for 7 years... I believe she's well aware of all things. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 ok, so again...why would you do this to another woman? Link to post Share on other sites
freckles3131 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 If he and the other girl have been together for 7 yrs...do you actually think he will leave her for you? Or will you be a one night stand and are you okay with being only that.... I couldn't go through with meeting up with him...dangerous situation...could get messy for all involved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 20, 2008 Author Share Posted October 20, 2008 If he and the other girl have been together for 7 yrs...do you actually think he will leave her for you? Or will you be a one night stand and are you okay with being only that.... I couldn't go through with meeting up with him...dangerous situation...could get messy for all involved. Why would I want HIM to leave her.. I do NOT want ANY of my MMs to leave their W.. same thing with him... It's just soo bizarre to know that he's back in town.. we dated for 2 years.. we had an amazing time.. I knew he had someone back in Toronto.. plus he's way too young for a long term relationship.. plus he wants kids.. I wasn't a one night stand back then.. I doubt I would be a ONS now.. He gets on MSN every night since the night we first got on MSN... we chat.. we listen to songs on youtube at the same time.. I know he wants to meet me.. he asked me if I'd be comfortable meeting him and having sex with him again.. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 Why would you even entertain such an idea? What is the gain? Sorry for his woman, she hasn't won a prize with him! "and he's hoping to get married soon." Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 I know he wants to meet me.. he asked me if I'd be comfortable meeting him and having sex with him again.. So what did you say?? Geez Lizzie your stories are better than watching soap operas, not that there's anything wrong with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 21, 2008 Author Share Posted October 21, 2008 So what did you say?? Geez Lizzie your stories are better than watching soap operas, not that there's anything wrong with watching soap operas. I said 'I don't know'.. then I asked how about him.. then he said 'I don't know' with a smiley icon... I left it at that. We haven't chat tonite.. for the first time since.. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 You're bad Lizzie. Except your the type that makes being bad seem good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 21, 2008 Author Share Posted October 21, 2008 You're bad Lizzie. Except your the type that makes being bad seem good. .... .... I might meet him for a drink.. I'm in no rush though.. this is not 'new' so it's not as exciting.. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 this is not 'new' so it's not as exciting. So make it new by letting him show you what he's learned these past few years. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted October 21, 2008 Author Share Posted October 21, 2008 So make it new by letting him show you what he's learned these past few years. Naaahhh I doubt he's learned anything new.. He was an amazing lover though... but I'm just not as excited. I'm like a 'spoiled brat'.. I WANT A NEW TOY... Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 Wow.. I'm still chatting with him again tonite.. he wants to see me again. Men are all the same.. it's been 4 years.. and he asked me if I was thinking about him.. I said not really since he had moved back to Toronto.. and it was OK.. yadayada.. Then he said I was on his mind all this time.. he never stopped thinking about me.. What a ... Now he just wrote that he dreamt about me last night.. he said it must have been the chat we had.. He's very slow to type.. so while he's writing.. I'm checking LS.. I just asked him to tell me about his dream.. that could take a while.. he probably type with one finger.. Ah les hommes.. tous des menteurs.. Well, depends if you believe him or not. Guys often say that stuff just for the ego boost of knowing they could still get the woman into bed if they wanted to. Or if they're bored and want some free sexy chat to get off. Whether he *actually* wants to do that - you don't know until he actually does it Still, in this case it looks like he probably is up for it, the sly SOB. Link to post Share on other sites
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