fromlonelytogreat Posted October 18, 2008 Share Posted October 18, 2008 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted October 18, 2008 Share Posted October 18, 2008 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? Huh? never heard of that.. what is other caucasians.. like other 'whites' maybe they mean like Iranians, Turks.. I don't know.. but I've never heard that... kind of strange. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 18, 2008 Share Posted October 18, 2008 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? Celebrate the fact that people are attracted to whomever they are attracted to. That's exactly how it works. You can't change that. So you're going to have to do what all of us have to do and that's find someone you are attracted to who is also attracted to you. That person is out there for you but if you think anonymous people on a message board are going to miraculously change the way life is for you and everybody else, you're on the WRONG world wide web! Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? Is your preference caucasian women only? Link to post Share on other sites
Author fromlonelytogreat Posted October 20, 2008 Author Share Posted October 20, 2008 Is your preference caucasian women only? I prefer them in general, yes. I am very much attracted to "white" features. If I was asked to choose between an average looking white girl with a decent personality, and a stunning asian girl with a decent personality, I'd probably choose the white one. It's not just about the looks though. I want to be with someone who has had a different upbringing to myself. It means that we're always going to be learning about each other, and any cultural differences that may exist. Link to post Share on other sites
lostinliife Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Everyone has their own preferences. Just find someone who is more open minded. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 oh come on, would you let your sister date a black guy? lol although I am an asian, I understand Link to post Share on other sites
Winnie B. Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 Spit on those.Move on.You`ll find those who say "Does not matter" whom they want , but then you are into another problem:Are they serious ? LOL:laugh: >when starting a relationship,one looks for whom he wants,but entering it,it does not matter< =I guess so many guess,not only me.I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 Just like the OP likes white women, other like white men or they want a black man or an asian man etc Yes it is true is real life too, I would only date a white guy because that is my preference so if I were to ever go on a dating site (which I wouldnt) I would state that I want to meet a white guy! It isnt racism, it is personal preference Link to post Share on other sites
MN randomguy Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 I prefer them in general, yes. I am very much attracted to "white" features. If I was asked to choose between an average looking white girl with a decent personality, and a stunning asian girl with a decent personality, I'd probably choose the white one. It's not just about the looks though. I want to be with someone who has had a different upbringing to myself. It means that we're always going to be learning about each other, and any cultural differences that may exist. Sounds like a plan. There are some white girls who like guys of any different race just due to the exoticness of it. I'm white and I would be glad to be your wingman if you ever run into the two hypothetical girls that you've mentioned. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? What do you mean, "Real Life"....? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 Those that put caucasian only are probably just going by who they have dated in the past. With the exception of those that are racist of course, then their issues are obvious. Link to post Share on other sites
fishtaco Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 What do you mean, "Real Life"....? He meant non online dating. As in meeting people at bars or parties as opposed to some dating site. fromlonelytogreat - IMHO online dating sucks anyway. It's too easy to be ignored. A woman will respond more to a random guy that approached her at a bar than a random guy that messaged her on some online dating site. It's something you should use when you're taking a dump, since you most likely won't be scoring with chicks during that time anyway - i.e. it's better than nothing. Don't worry about the Asian thing. I know it feels kind of unfair that Asian women are highly sought after, but not Asian men. But that's not a bad thing. For every white guy that dates an Asian chick, there's a white girl left for you to date. Your Asian sistas are helping you out. If you just put yourself out there, you'll land hits. In fact if a chick says she's not interested in Asians, great, move on. She just saved you a bunch of time. I was at a bar earlier tonight, and this chick obviously liked me. Except the first thing out of her mouth was about religion, and she didn't like the fact that I'm agnostic. It wouldn't work, she said, while she was so trashed she could barely stand up, and at the same time she was squeezing my arms because I guess she liked my guns. So that turned from a potential score to amusement for my friends. You just shrug and move on. Ethnicity is only one of many things that could end in a no. No point worrying about it. Link to post Share on other sites
zenith Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 why don't you go for Indians... they're Asians too Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 I always thought I had a preference in a man, and it was mainly a picture of a white dude with black hair and blue eyes. I met a dude online and we had a first date and he was absolutely stunning- he blew me away. Turns out he was North American Indian and Italian-50% of each. He had such a sexy look to him. I also used to love men that were taller than me... then had a date with a short guy that also blew me away. Sometimes it's the ones that you don't see coming that have the biggest impact. I guess I am illustrating that people can change their idea of types upon meeting someone. I'd date an asian dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Miranda1 Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 I have noticed that many profiles of white women (what I find attractive) to indicate that they prefer to meet other caucasians only. This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. Is this true in real life too? I'm Eurasian and only Caucasian guys approach me, but I would love it if an Asian or African guy approached me! I guess I'm not attractive to them...Oh well, I suppose 'beggars can't be choosers.' Link to post Share on other sites
finkelstein Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 not be judgemental with other people preferences, u date who u want who ur attracted to, what ever make you happy. but i feel that relationships are based to much on race n creed, if you live in america your american, canada your cannadian etc. i feel that relationships would be so better off if it was just who the person was inside that counted. but it is true we all have preferences. as for me im caucasion and i wouldnt mind findind a petite asian, or an african american with the junk in the trunk, but in all truthfullness i just want someone who would commit themselfs as much as i would. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 In the past, I've dated mostly caucasian women - occasionally women whom were mixed or hispanic/middleastern. I've got this thing for blonde females that I can't shake... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 This is disheartening to me, because I am of asian appearance. what is your definition of "asian appearance"? Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 OP, you clearly have a preference for white women. What's wrong with these women having a preference for white men? Aren't you being a bit of a hypocrite? We like who we like... That's just the way it is. Link to post Share on other sites
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