My experience with a girl I met this last weekend! Married?

[Rooster_DAR]

So, I went out Friday night for Sushi which is my normal routine. I happened to sit next to an older women and her daughter who was probably one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever laid my eyes on. She rivaled Jennifer Aniston but even better, she was brunette, tall, slim, and did I mention beautiful.

 

Anyway, so I am eaves dropping and starting idle chat up with the mother, who had seemed to take liking to my personality. She kept commenting to her daughter how handsome I was, so naturally I was quite flattered. After a few minutes a friend of the daughters came in and sat right next to me, and joined in on the interesting conversation.

 

Then the friend starts talking and flirting with me as well, and I could not stop noticing the beautiful daughter kept smiling at me, as if she wanted my attention. Anyway to keep this story short, they asked me to join them an upscale nightclub which I did. The daughter kept me occupied by asking me sit by her and dance with her yada yada yada.

 

My friend (owner of the Sushi bar) shows up and tells me she’s married and her husband is overseas. I was a bit shocked, but I ignored to because my ego was all that mattered plus I had a few drinks. We wind up going to a country nightclub where we continued dancing and she began holding my hand and then kissed me.

 

I did not resist, and before we left that night I got her phone number. The next day, after prolonged reflection my sanity kicked in and I realized where I was heading. I remember how badly I was devastated when my fiancé cheated on me, and this girl is not engaged she’s married! I deleted her number and will not be calling her.

 

My point is; that it’s so easy to overlook the obvious clues when you are attracted to someone and the chemistry is in place. It’s like a mask; you want to protect that chemistry by rationalizing behavior that threatens the possibility to engage in emotional and sexual conduct when it’s just not right.

 

Just thought I would share my story with you;

 

Cheers!

[Geishawhelk]

My point is; that it’s so easy to overlook the obvious clues when you are attracted to someone and the chemistry is in place.

 

I don't think you got many clues, especially with the mom coming on so strong too... the biggest clue you got was from the Sushi bar owner...your friend... and WHAT a friend! looking out for you, or what - ??

 

It’s like a mask; you want to protect that chemistry by rationalizing behavior that threatens the possibility to engage in emotional and sexual conduct when it’s just not right.

 

Ah, but look - no matter how tempted you might have been, you still didn't let your 'chemistry' lead you around by the nose. You backed off.

 

You Backed Off.

 

Takes quite something to do that.

 

my heartiest congrats to you! Good on ya!!

 

Hang on tho'... am I mistaken (and I may well be....) didn't you have a young lady already...? I thought you'd found someone steady....?

Maybe I'm imagining things......

[Rooster_DAR]

I don't think you got many clues, especially with the mom coming on so strong too... the biggest clue you got was from the Sushi bar owner...your friend... and WHAT a friend! looking out for you, or what - ??

 

 

 

Ah, but look - no matter how tempted you might have been, you still didn't let your 'chemistry' lead you around by the nose. You backed off.

 

You Backed Off.

 

Takes quite something to do that.

 

my heartiest congrats to you! Good on ya!!

 

Hang on tho'... am I mistaken (and I may well be....) didn't you have a young lady already...? I thought you'd found someone steady....?

Maybe I'm imagining things......

 

I just started seeing a lady from the past, no commitment yet though although it may come soon.

 

Cheers!

[Geishawhelk]

Even more reason to have reined back, huh?

No point spoiling the ship for a ha'p'orth of tar.....

 

(if you need a translation, let me know.... we British and our Maritime idioms! )

[Shygirl15]

I just started seeing a lady from the past, no commitment yet though although it may come soon.

 

Cheers!

 

oh..oh..

 

Hopefully not the last one we warned you about..

[Lizzie60]

Oh!!! ..... and ???

 

Are we suppose to applaud your heroic exploit..

[Rooster_DAR]

Oh!!! ..... and ???

 

Are we suppose to applaud your heroic exploit..

 

No, not really. I was just trying to make a point that attraction and chemistry can make us not think clearly, that's all.

[Bryanp]

I have to tell you that I think you should have made sure that she was indeed married. Isn't it possible that your friend could have made a mistake? All you had to do was call her and verify this. I would hate to think that you erased her number and found out later it was not true. The bottom line is don't necessarily believe everything you hear. What do you have to lose to just verify her situation?

[Rooster_DAR]

I have to tell you that I think you should have made sure that she was indeed married. Isn't it possible that your friend could have made a mistake? All you had to do was call her and verify this. I would hate to think that you erased her number and found out later it was not true. The bottom line is don't necessarily believe everything you hear. What do you have to lose to just verify her situation?

 

Hmm, good point.

[GPFan]

My point is; that it’s so easy to overlook the obvious clues when you are attracted to someone and the chemistry is in place. It’s like a mask; you want to protect that chemistry by rationalizing behavior that threatens the possibility to engage in emotional and sexual conduct when it’s just not right.

Thank you for proving the current crop of humans aren't entirely composed of beings who can't control their animal urges to go out into the world populate it with the next crop of "baby daddies" and "baby mommies."

 

Whew! What a relief!

 

 

 

Oh!!! ..... and ???

Are we suppose to applaud your heroic exploit..

Ummmmmmmmmm... Lizzie

 

This is where you are supposed to put on your televangelist hat and convince this poor soul that he is nothing more than a collection of urges, desires and hormones.

 

Losing your touch?

[BrooklynBridge]

Your "friend" the sushi bar owner is totally cockblocking you!

 

He'd hate to see with a super hottie that you met in HIS restaurant.

 

Forget the previous girl, call the beautiful girl and tell you want to date her, and just want to make sure she is available....can't hurt to simply ask her!

[TudorII]

Sounds like the girls were out for a girls night out and on the prowl. Could have easily been a mother/daughter tag team story to remember for the ages. My guess is it would have been a one night deal either way but if you can sleep better with your decision more power to you. Some would loose more sleep over the missed the opportunity and not even see the moral right and wrong of it. So your point is valid...stroking one's ego often leads to trouble.