Jeff Posted August 28, 2003 Share Posted August 28, 2003 ok help me u might have seen my sayini wish i had a girlfreind well i could get one. I sit next to this really hot girl in class ok. She is nice and seems to kinda like me, well she isnt mean to me or ignores me and she askes me for help and she gets my the pappers teacher wants to get us and i get them for her 2. were just starting out as freinds right now but what do i do next? i mean should i just talk to her good and get o know her really good? i feel stupid right now but really i dont do this much so please help me out here :-( Link to post Share on other sites
my_mother's_daughter Posted August 28, 2003 Share Posted August 28, 2003 Better time spent in class improving your spelling and grammar. Please, relationships are so much better left to the older and wiser, concentrate on your education and don't worry about things that don't need to be worried about yet. I despair of a culture where status is often reliant upon sex and relationships at such an early age. Trust me, it will happen in time, the fact that it hasn't happened yet is pretty normal for someone in your age group. Appreciate this girl for what she is: someone with whom you can develop a friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted August 28, 2003 Share Posted August 28, 2003 dude, don't get her papers anymore. ask her to bring you yours. smile at her and stuff, but do your own thing. if you are too nice you will end up forever in friend land Link to post Share on other sites
Jim24 Posted September 6, 2003 Share Posted September 6, 2003 Let me just warn you about something you want to be careful of. You should be nice to this girl and all, but dont be a tool. What I mean, is dont go too far out of the way to be nice, because she may take it for granted and youll get hurt more. I once thought I was being nice to a girl by giving her the answers to all the homework and stuff and she let me do it and then turned me down. You want to seem nice, but you dont want to seem like a tool either. I was in the same position that you are in now, just start up a conversation about movies, music or something. If you want, you can ask other people that know her what shes interested in to get an idea for good conversation topics, but dont do to much of this or youll seem like a stalker. One last warning, and Ive givern this warning to lots of people: Dont' get in the trap of talking to a girl you are interested in online all the time. It seems fine at first, but it makes everything awkward later. Link to post Share on other sites
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