cryn4attn Posted October 25, 2008 Share Posted October 25, 2008 hey, so i've written about this guy before, met him 2 yrs ago, didn't date then but now we decided to date and were SO excited about it, he lives 2 hrs away and we were crazy about each other..however I did sleep with him the first weekend he came up...we continuously kept seeing eachother for another 3 weeks he was telling me how much he liked me and all that, he decided he wanted to take things slow after the 2nd week then he stops calling as much an then the last week doesn't call me at all i had to email him and be like what is going on? and he blamed it on work and school ...was it because i put out too soon? he said it didn't matter ...am i being naive? i feel awful about it its been eating me up because i really was seeing a real future with this guy and he told me the same thing even after sex, did i totally ruin it for myself? Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 25, 2008 Share Posted October 25, 2008 I kinda would just trust him when he says that it didn't matter, and believe him when he says that he is being kept very busy with work and school. Combined, those do consume a lot of energy and time, and needs him to be mentally alert and physically well-rested so that he can focus/concentrate on doing well. Sounds like he is just doing what he knows to be the responsible thing -- taking proper care of his mental and physical needs so that he doesn't become too depleted and exhausted to be able to be the best b/f that he wants to be, for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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