I am unsure of her signals: signals or just being friendly?

[asxx]

I go to a fitness centre where the receptionist participates in the following:

 

1) gives me a big greeting and a smile all the time

2) repeats my name in conversation

3) has touched my forearm a few times on my way out

4) seems to find me funny and has told me so

5) asked me for my opinion on her shoes ( displaying a dress sandal and wearing a toe ring )...

6) once I called the club to see if it was open and she knew it was me

7) She said once that " I was the best"

8) On the phone she said my friend ( my name ) is selling his house.

9) She was playing with her little cousin and she introduced me.

10) her eyes seem to glisten when in conversation ( i could be misinterpreting things )

 

I can't really observe other body gestures because she is behind a desk most of the tiime...but what am I to think of this? signals or just being friendly?

[jenny]

definite potential. she might just be friendly, but the touching suggests there is room for more. ask her for email address, then email a couple of days later with a specific (but casual) suggestion and plan. coffee is a good place to start, but pick somewhere kinda cool, or local, or strange, not just starbucks. go get 'em, tiger! xox j

[Tony T]

I'd say she's a great receptionist, she knows how to make people feel good, she's a hell of a PR person for the fitness centre...a very friendly lady. That said, she may possibly be sending you signals of interest as well. The better possibility is that she is just a very outgoing person. You will lose nothing by asking her if she's busy on her day off and if she'd like to do something with you. But my guess is, based on observing a lot of ladies with similar personalities, is that she's either got a boyfriend who is 6'5" and Mr. World Bodybuilder or she gets asked out often. But don't let that discourage you. Mr. World Bodybuilder always gives warnings first before he kills.