Tim432 Posted October 26, 2008 Share Posted October 26, 2008 id been with my gf for just over a year when when she got her dream job (hair dressing apprentice) and moved to sydney while i stayed bout 8 hrs away by car in casino (i live in australia). we were going alright till i felt left behind and i sorta stopped talkin to her as much, then bout 3 weeks ago she said it was over. but ever since then its been like something has been missing from my life and now she came back home for a week to visit her parents, we talked a bit and we both said we still love each other very much but she wants me to move to syd and i said that i would visit her every month at least once a month. we both want to travel when the apprenticeship is finished but in the meantime i going to run a business for a couple of years till we're ready to travel. she says she is unsure and im afraid to push it more for now incase it pushes her away. i have tickets to fly down in 3 weeks and im thinking that i should just take it careful and show her im trying to make the effort to see her as much as posible. sorry for the length of this. but i really love her so much can you give me any advice on what to do? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Amy22 Posted October 26, 2008 Share Posted October 26, 2008 You said that you felt left behind and didn't talk to her as much. Is this something you will be able to change? I think if you can it will make things go a lot smoother. Do you think you are open to moving to Syd on two years when you are done runnng the business? I think visting her every month is a good thing and will show you are trying to make things work. I think you are right that you need to show her you are trying to make an effort. My bf moved away a little over a year ago for a job. It is very hard but so far we have made it. I planning on moving out there as soon as I can. If we didn't have a future plan to move together I couldn't keep doing it. That is why I asked what your plan is for being together in the future. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted October 27, 2008 Share Posted October 27, 2008 The only thing you really can do is keep up the communication and the visits. She told you she still loves you so that is a lot more than most people have as far as hope goes. Keep contact and remind her of all of the good times you have had together. Make more wonderful shared memories during your visits and that should keep that flame going. Just do not get sucked in to whatever the emotions were that caused you to pull away. Clearly that sent a message to her that you don't want sent again. Good luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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