Wolverine117 Posted August 30, 2003 Share Posted August 30, 2003 Hi. I'm a high school graduate who is going to college for the first time. It starts soon. I'm big and tall and black and not very good with women. It saddens me to say that i am a virgin. Still. (ay, hope none of my friends ever read this). I've hung out with some girls but stuff was never like I wanted it to be. I have yet to meet a girl who's truly interested in me. I come off as a nice guy and we all know that leads to nowhere. If anyone could give me some advice, it would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted August 30, 2003 Share Posted August 30, 2003 I'm big and tall and black and not very good with women. I fail to see how the first 3 characteristics pertain to the last. It saddens me to say that i am a virgin. It shouldn't. I wasn't seasoned when I hit college. The shame is only being created by you. I come off as a nice guy and we all know that leads to nowhere. If you aren't a nice guy, it leads to nowhere. If you ARE, it leads to worthwhile women. Just remember that some "nice" guys are not coming off as nice....they are coming off as weak. Until you can stand alone, you won't find a woman to stand beside you. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 well ..instead of telling us where you stand. Tell us your problems and exactly what kind of advice you're looking for. Link to post Share on other sites
longlegzs80 Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Why should you be ashamed of being a virgin? Guys like you are hard to come by and when I hear that you are saddened by the fact that you are still a virgin and don't have a girlfriend it totally makes me want to smack some sense into you. Sorry to be so blunt, but you should be proud of yourself. I have total respect for someone like yourself who is still a virgin. Guys now adays are just pigs who want to get into a girls pants and don't seem to give a ****. Your very lucky to still be a vigin. Wish I was. Of course it was just another stupid mistake in my life but anyways, just be confident. Not cocky. Confident. Be proud of yourself and who you are and women will flock to you. ANd another thing nice guys are what women want. WEll, I should only talk for myself on this one, since it is hard to meet a guy who is not stuck on himself. Just be who you are, and be confident in who you are and you will meet women. Link to post Share on other sites
magritte Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Originally posted by longlegzs80 Why should you be ashamed of being a virgin? Guys like you are hard to come by and when I hear that you are saddened by the fact that you are still a virgin and don't have a girlfriend it totally makes me want to smack some sense into you. Sorry to be so blunt, but you should be proud of yourself. I have total respect for someone like yourself who is still a virgin. Guys now adays are just pigs who want to get into a girls pants and don't seem to give a ****. Your very lucky to still be a vigin. Wish I was. Of course it was just another stupid mistake in my life but anyways, just be confident. Not cocky. Confident. Be proud of yourself and who you are and women will flock to you. ANd another thing nice guys are what women want. WEll, I should only talk for myself on this one, since it is hard to meet a guy who is not stuck on himself. Just be who you are, and be confident in who you are and you will meet women. I think you completely missed the point. It isn't 'being a virgin' that is depressing, its the fact that no one has ever wanted to do that with you. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 I think the issues with most teens and adults is the pressure of today's society.. everybody's saying i scored this and that and i went out with that many women....the truth is..almost everyone LIES or..just over exaggerates. Because the instant you say you've never scored or whatever, the idea of you being a loser will come up in people's mind. Believe me, if that's how they think, then they are not worth knowing. just be true to yourself and others around you, when the time comes it will come. Link to post Share on other sites
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