WHere are good places to meet a decent gal & how should I present myself

[tackleboxteddybear]

Ok im a lead singer in a band & were still working on some songs.Havent got to perform yet.My friends tell me DONT WORY YOUR THE SINGER CHICKS WILL DIG THAT.But I dont know if i want teh gals that will only give me attention because of that.

 

Our drummer wants me to go to bars with him to try to meet someone.Im not really down with the hole bar seen though.

 

THe girl i have a crush on likes one of my friends & she found out he likes her even though she says hes not her usual type.

 

Now I dont want to here the "In due time" thing because my last relationship was near 3 years ago & she hurt me.I called her house back then & her sister said "Shes probably out F***ing SOME OTHER DUDE" . Then I called her to ask how shes been long time no speak & she yelled at me while she was at a party saying "STOP YELLING AT ME ILL CALL YOU LATER" and hung up even though i was just callin to see what was up & how she was.

 

Now truely where is a good place to find a good woman?

 

Preferably one with tattoo's & piercings but I like all women im not discriminate unless they are morbidly obeast (mispell).But I really dig Alterna , metal , punk , hipster chicks & I like the regular ones from time to time as well.

 

I also need a lil advice on how to present myself cause im not to good at the "Hi my name is so& so whats yours"

so have at it.

[Jim24]

Im not sure my advice may be best since Im just 17, but the best places to meet girls like that in my opinion would be clubs and concerts. Just go in, and if you see someone that catches your eye off dancing/sitting or whatever by themselves, just go up to them, comment on whatever place your at. Obviously you can both talk about that since you both are at the place. Then start asking about interests, movies, bands, whatever. If you both find out you like the same band or something (or you could pretend to be really interested in one that she likes) that's a great topic to stay on for awhile. Eventually, she'll decide if you interest her or not. If she seems eager to continue the conversation, then go for it. If she keeps terminating the conversation topic, than find someone else. That's my advice, not sure if it may be of much help but it'll probably be something to work with. Good luck dude.