charvisioku Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 Okay... well, basically, I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 and a half months. He lives in Kent and I in Manchester. Big distance, but there have been much bigger which have worked. My problem, I suppose, is the same one any long-distance relationship suffers. One thing I recognize is that our relationship is much easier than most, seeing as it's generally every 2-3 weeks that we see each other. However, it still hurts like hell to be apart, and despite what anyone says, I really am falling deeply for this guy. He's the sweetest and most caring I could hope for, and he's - like me - inclined towards really serious relationships, rather than "a bit of fun". I suppose that's obvious, though, as it's long-distance. Hah. Anyway, I'll (finally - sorry!) get round to what I'm wanting help with. As I've said, I miss him a hell of a lot when we're apart, and I was wondering if anyone has a way I can make it a bit easier? I'm naturally quite a clingy person, so that makes it all the more difficult, but it's not unbearable. The problem lies in the fact I'm quite insecure from past relationships. It's not a lack of trust in him - there isn't one - it's a lack of trust in myself not to be overly clingy. I'm not suppressing anything and don't plan to - if I can't be honest, what's the point? - but I do feel quite jumpy at times. Not the worst problem in the world, but not easy, either. And he travels a lot, too, with a club he's in. Makes it a little harder, too. Thankyou for reading this. A!r Link to post Share on other sites
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