wanttoknow Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 it has been a while since I posted last. Lots of changes going on in my life and with my wife. I have been dealing with my codependent issues, which includes counseling and attending a 12 step group for codependency and my wife and I are in counseling. I am trying to balance out my issues and somehow do the right things for my wife. When we started counseling a month and a half ago - i knew already my wife didn't love me, and even said she couldn't respect me. She has developed some good friends - women - at her new job and they are doing things (going out) and all things she can have the freedom to do, but I/we really never allowed that growth. So this has been going on and she looks a little happier about that and I am happy for her. She has called me at work a little more again just to talk. and tonight I went out to dinner with a group of men I officiate with and even though it was dinner it turned into a later night. I got home at 11:30 and she was upset I didn't call or let her know I was going to be later. Now, I always used to do this and now feel weird - like why is she upset about this now type thing...but i know it was insensitive not to call. At the same time...she has done similar things and it was okay. I am trying to let that go and be what it is. somehow...i feel like it was a good sign. Ladies...what do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
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