SarahT111 Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Hi all I’m in quite a new LD relationship. But one that is having its problems already Anyway I read that you should always "Be the girl that he fell in love with" But how do I be the girl he fell in love with when it is a LDR? My relationship unfortunately at this current time relies on txt as he is very busy. He is also to busy at the moment for either of us to visit each other. So how do I be the fun loving happy person I once was via txt? I get sad as we are apart sooo long and he has no time to visit or call so it turns into a grumpy, over analyzing gf that txts him How do I get my normal self back and portray it. I don’t want to ruin the relationship at all. Also any ideas of little things I could do/send that lets him know im thinking of him? I would love some ideas!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
shockabsorber Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Have you guys ever met each other? How far apart are you from each other? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SarahT111 Posted October 31, 2008 Author Share Posted October 31, 2008 O yes of course, we have been close friends for about 5 years? But then he moved cities to study We werent together when we were in the same city as we both had different partners but were bestfriends. I always felt I could relax with him and just be crazy old me! But now that we have gotten together I seem to find it hard to be me again for some reason. I want to be the girl he fell for and not a crazy grumpy one! But how do I show this by txt?!! We are about 4 and a half hours drive and 45 minute flight. Which is close for some I know. And im and very very willing to go and visit him as much as I can but he is to busy for me to come at the moment! Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Hi all I’m in quite a new LD relationship. But one that is having its problems already Anyway I read that you should always "Be the girl that he fell in love with" But how do I be the girl he fell in love with when it is a LDR? My relationship unfortunately at this current time relies on txt as he is very busy. He is also to busy at the moment for either of us to visit each other. So how do I be the fun loving happy person I once was via txt? I get sad as we are apart sooo long and he has no time to visit or call so it turns into a grumpy, over analyzing gf that txts him How do I get my normal self back and portray it. I don’t want to ruin the relationship at all. Also any ideas of little things I could do/send that lets him know im thinking of him? I would love some ideas!!!! Call him - don't text him. He'd probably enjoy hearing your voice and it would certainly add to your communication. Send him pictures with short, hot or romantic messages. Tell him what you want to do with him when you can see each other... Link to post Share on other sites
shockabsorber Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Yeah...why do you guys text each other instead of talking on the phone. It would be much more personal and you would be able to express so much more emotion that way! Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 I want to be the girl he fell for and not a crazy grumpy one! But how do I show this by txt?!! Sarah, Your texts/conversations would just be reflecting your attitudes, thoughts and feelings -- if it is that your current mindset is "a crazy grumpy one", then that is what needs the adjustment cos it is blocking your fun-loving, happy side from coming across to him (and others?) Maybe it will be helpful if you reflected on what is causing your "crazy grumpiness" and see what needs to be done about changing those conditions? Link to post Share on other sites
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