sports1 Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 I like this girl that's kinda shy even though she can talk to friends..total strangers(customers) so her shyness isn't as bad anymore I guess. anyway I got all these mixed signals from work ( I work with her or used to now) where lead me to tell her that I liked her. well she said that she didn't want to start anything that she's going off to college plus wanted the summer to spend with friends. after all of that times when I saw her in person she'd give me a serious look or just look in a different direction..just didn't seem comfortable around me where times she just had to walk off and do stuff if I was alone..that she pretty much avoided me I guess,where she talks to everyone else w/o a problem. I also talk to her online,where I do most of the talking,but she responds back right away for the most part and is open most of the time when responses and you'd think if I was bothering at all or didn't want to talk to me she'd block me. anyway all of this,which gets me wondering if she was avoiding because she liked me,but didn't want to get too close for reasons or its the totally something else Well today this girl that I like came back to town,I guess for the weekend and helped out at the place, well it was the same where everytime her and I walked past she'd look down or in a different direction. I did say something like" it's been a long day" she barely responded by saying yeah and kinda grinned I guess. after closing we sat down to eat,thats when she arrived to help out for some huge banquet afterwards..well she joined us..one girl asked if theirs alot of hot guys at college and she said yes..others asked if she's been out with any guy from there or did anything and whatever else along those lines or likes someone from there..I don't know something like that haha..well she didn't even respond back..I know its hard to read but how would you..that she was just being shy plus that she could like me but didn't want to say it for reasons or their is someone and that I was sitting right there..didn't want to hurt my feelings?
NEONINK Posted September 15, 2003 Posted September 15, 2003 You are going to have to ask the question to the right girl. Hey, just ask her out. She'll either say yes or no. No big deal. If you are a single guy, you might want to get used to it anyway, unfortunately, a lot of girls wait around for guys to ask. Also, don't ever be intimidated by any girl. Some of the best looking girls have the lowest self-esteem.
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