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Is he a playa? I dont know him like I thought I did


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Well I met this kid 2 days ago at my best friends house. Her name is Kayla. Well the guys name is Ryan. Ryan went out with kaylas sister Sammy but sammy broke it off the next day. Well anyways I met him at kaylas moms party and at first i thought what a jerk. Ryan had his shirt off and his as* hanging out literally. But I guess I got to know him and I guess I got to liking him, wrong thing to do I guess.

 

Well i just kept on telling kayla that i liked Ryan and thought he was hot. Which he is a cutie. And that day ryan gave kayla his cell and kept on telling us to call him so we did. Kayla got to talking to him. She finally told him i liked him. Well that day Ryan was with his two cousins KC and Jason. When Kayla told him i liked him he was like really. Jason was at a game and KC was with ryan at the time. Well Ryan and I went out cuz he said yes. I was so happy. Well that day kayla and I had to babysit. So he told me to call him at the house we were babysitting at. I called him and he was like waz up? Im like nadda really. he was just askin me when i was gettin off babysitting. I didnt know. So he just told me to call him later. Oh i did and I got a BIG surprise!

 

2 hours later I call his cell and he had it turned off when i finally got through he said hey and his phone died. KC his cousin called back and said to kayla put Ryans girlfriend on so i go on and this girl was on Ryans call. Im like yes shes like oh im with your boyfriend Ryan. And hung up. I was so mad! I tried calling back and he turned his cell off. I kept trying and after the 20th time he picked up. Kayla was like who was that girl? hes like I donno some girl. One of my friends sisters. Then his phone died. I had a real bad feeling. Well we were sitting on the porch and Jasons comes down. Kayla was like who was that girl he'd like I donno Ryan just likes to talk. Then 2 minutes later while Jason Kayla and I were talkin here comes a few other kids. Im like wheres Ryan? There like he wiped out on his skateboard. Im like oh my God!

 

5 minutes later someone was coming around the corner. Then Jason says here comes pimp maN!! Im like thinkin WHAT! So here was all his friends and he didnt say 1 word to me. (Pimpman meaning ryan) So there all like well were leaving and Ryans like peace to me. We went into the house I felt like crying myself to sleep. 20 minutes later I look out the door I see Ryan! Im like omg im seeing things. He's like come outside. So kayla and i go outside. We were on the phone with my ex todd. Kayla was sitting by ryan and I was sitting by kayla not ryan and jason was there and was standing up. Jason goes to ryan arent u lonly sittin by yourself. Im like yeah oh well. lol. Jasons like sit by him sO i do and ryans like theres a wall in front of us. So he pushed me practically on his lap. He asked me if I was cold. I said a lil. He put his arm around me. We just started talking about everything and I was falling to like him real bad. We talked about everything and he had to leave so we hug, he wanted to kiss but i didnt feel ready sooo....

 

1 hour later we were talkin to Ryan on the computer and hes like I miss you come down jasons. Im like i donno. So I finally say yes kayla jason and i meet down by the church by kaylas. Ryan put his arm around me and we walk around the block 10 minutes later kayla and I had to leave. He hugs me and was bout to kiss me but didnt. Theres so must more but to long to explain. Lets just say i heard from a few people tat ryan was a playa and breaks up with girls every 10 minutes. So today i asked him and hes like no who did you hear that from im like people do u really like me. hes like yes I love you why. hes like who did u hear it from im like a few people hes like whi im like I cant tell hes like fine I wont talk to you again. Im like really well is it over. hes like hell yea!

 

he then says he only went out with me cuz KC dared him to. I lied and said kayla dared me to go out with him that i was with Todd. We just kept fighting. And Ryan then got all sweet and said he still loved me!!! Im like hells no! Hes like it wasnt a dare I was only kidding I really do like you. Hes like i care bout you. Do you trust me Im like no i dont. I didnt trust him in the beginning in the first place. Well now he wants me back but I bet its just a dare....Cuz listen to this he said it was a dare but then he started to really like me and then he said it wasnt eva a dare...He says he swears he likes me and i don know what to believe. I liked Ryan alot I looked deep into his soul and saw the real deal but i dont know him like I thought I did.....What should I do? Plz reply

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I'm really really tired right now and can't give this post the attention it deserves. But PLEASE don't even think about dying before I have a chance to post a reply tomorrow after I wake up. I'm sure we can get this ironed out for you.

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Originally posted by cindy0039

My advice: You need to like grow up!

 

Care to elaborate on that thought? I don't think "grow up" is sufficent for the original poster who, as you pointed out, seems to be fairly young. Perhaps you could offer some constructive suggestions to help her get a better grasp on the situation?

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