Clover Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 What would be the best revenge for a guy who is a Player? . Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 To be aloof. Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Play right back at him. (Is there a word for a female player? Playerette?) Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 To be aloof. You are absolutely correct!!! This is the one and only way to deal with a "player". Be so aloof that it hurts! If you go out with him on Friday night and have a great time and he calls you on Saturday tell him you've already made other plans. This will drive him crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Showing him your not intrested. That should deflate his alter ego pretty quick. AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
CommitmentPhobe Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 None, he won't give a **** Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Players should either be considered part of your catch and release program or men who are of disinterest. End result, there's no need for revenge since they can't get to you. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 What would be the best revenge for a guy who is a Player? . Which sport or instrument? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Players should either be considered part of your catch and release program or men who are of disinterest. End result, there's no need for revenge since they can't get to you. I love this answer ! I think being blase' about the person is best. Afterall , you know they are just playing you. Don't wait by the phone . Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 I love this answer ! I think being blase' about the person is best. Afterall , you know they are just playing you. Don't wait by the phone . Move on. The strange part is that this type of attitude keeps them coming back for more. When I was younger, I went through a stage of reeling in players but of course, always releasing them. The only way you can do it is not to allow yourself to care 'cause it's only a game. Even if you manage to reel them in, they're not worth much to you, because they're unable to have functional relationships. You don't want to spend the rest of your life watching your back. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 if it's revenge you want then i suppose you could use him and toss him aside... he may not even notice though... :eek: Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 What if he had a funeral and no one came? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 What would be the best revenge for a guy who is a Player? . to find another man? Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 to find another man? Better yet, his buddy. For a player, losing a chick wouldn't phase him; losing one to his buddy would. That's not just a woman, that's points on the board! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 a good player has plenty of wing-men so losing one would make no difference. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 The strange part is that this type of attitude keeps them coming back for more. When I was younger, I went through a stage of reeling in players but of course, always releasing them. The only way you can do it is not to allow yourself to care 'cause it's only a game. Even if you manage to reel them in, they're not worth much to you, because they're unable to have functional relationships. You don't want to spend the rest of your life watching your back. I remember a time about 2/3 years ago where I would have my way with the Players and then show them the door....literally...:" : Well its getting late and I have to get to bed so,....:" They were like : Okay..." Of course now I have become so different from who I used to be that I don't recognize the former me....anymore.... Link to post Share on other sites
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