akki007 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Are these the possible hints of my bf to propose to me in soon time? Its a mutual agreement between hiim and I that we wont have sex before marriage( not nessarily to eachother)... but sometimes we just discuss love making and it would be with each..just for fun..,and he somtimes says we will do it soon,dont worry about it.... and I was pointing out some baby pictures..and how they might resemble to our kids if we ever have them, he said yeah we will see ,they will turn out cute,dont worry about it and discussed how we would possibly romance like crazy lovers with each other if we ever lived togther..and he said he has a feeling that time will come soon,even tho he knows how strict my parents are,and wont allow me to live in so living in the future is IMPOSIBLE Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Probably. He sounds pretty horny, could propose any day now! Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 So his motivated for proposing is so you two can have sex? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 How old are you, how long have you been dating, and where are you with your educations and careers? If you're still living at home, are you in school or have you graduated and are working? What about him? If neither of you are anywhere near ready to support yourselves, getting married and starting a family are a long way off - or should be! Link to post Share on other sites
m-j Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I have been raised in a Christian church, where sex before marriage is a big no-no. I appreciate my upbringing, it has taught me that the first time (and every other time) is to be special and with someone with whom you are planning on spending your life with. But I didn't wait until I was married. I had sex with my first boyfriend who was planning on asking me to marry him. It didn't work out with him in the end (lets just say i ended it because of the pressure from my parents to get married before I lived with him and to do everything 'the right way'). If you are both in love and are planning on making this work long-term, then EXPRESS your love!!! my second boyfriend (my current one) and I are very much in love and he comes from a Catholic upbringing, but we dont have a problem with sex before we are married. we are both adults, we are in love and that is how we express ourselves. it is the most amazing connection you will ever have!!! This is somewhat off-topic but I am planning on moving out with my boyfriend soon, against my parent's wishes, but I am an adult and it is my decision. We are talking of marriage and babies but not anytime soon. We will move out together, set up our careers, establish our relationship for a number of years and then I will expect the question! It is not 1901. Girls can look after themselves in every way necessary. They don't need to live with their parents until a financially stable gentleman asks their father's permission for his daughter's hand in marriage. A girl marries a man when she is ready to commit herself. Anyway that is a bit off-topic. But what I am saying is, dont feel pressured into not doing anything just because of your upbringing. because you and your boyfriend want to express your love, its your decision! Sex is the BEST form of spiritual, emotional, physical, loving expression and there isnt anything ungodly about it. Link to post Share on other sites
amymarieca Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 No, they are not hints that he will propose anytime soon. I think you are reading into it a little too much. Even though you don't believe in sex before marriage, he is still a guy who probably thinks about sex a lot. Just enjoy the relationship and see where it goes. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I think he will propose and then try to convince you that its ok to have sex since you are promised to be married eventually. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I This is somewhat off-topic but I am planning on moving out with my boyfriend soon, against my parent's wishes, but I am an adult and it is my decision. We are talking of marriage and babies but not anytime soon. We will move out together, set up our careers, establish our relationship for a number of years and then I will expect the question! It is not 1901. Girls can look after themselves in every way necessary. They don't need to live with their parents until a financially stable gentleman asks their father's permission for his daughter's hand in marriage. A girl marries a man when she is ready to commit herself. Anyway that is a bit off-topic. But what I am saying is, dont feel pressured into not doing anything just because of your upbringing. because you and your boyfriend want to express your love, its your decision! Sex is the BEST form of spiritual, emotional, physical, loving expression and there isnt anything ungodly about it. Just thought I'd say you sound like a woman with strong traditional roots but with a realistic outlook. Bravo! Link to post Share on other sites
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