(first post) How should I approach this situation with a close friend of mine?

[bpt]

Hi everybody,

So there's this girl that I'm friends with who is in the same program as I am and we're in every class together for the next few years. Her and I are really close and our personalities seem to be really compatible. We never really talked about a relationship but I've definitely been thinking about it and I get the feeling that she has too. I'm really attracted to her and love her personality. I kid not when I say that everything is more enjoyable when I'm with her.

 

So, the good part. We went to the same college and went back to visit for the weekend. We were hanging out with our groups of friends a lot and went to a party together. As the night progressed I happened to black out really hard, but phased in at a point where we were on the grass together, and that's all I remember. Now, bearing in mind that we haven't talked a word about a relationship with each other, I may have kissed her while blacked out. So now, since it's pretty obvious that I have feelings for her, I feel obliged to make a move, which I am pretty settled on doing, but am not sure how to do so. I really, really want this to work, so how should I approach her about this? Some of my friends have told me to just make a move and not "talk," others have told me to talk to her since we're already so close and are going to be seeing each other every day for the next few years.

 

I'd really appreciate your advice. If anything is unclear and hinders on giving advice, please let me know and I'll clarify.

 

Thanks

[bpt]

I'd also like to add that I may have done something stupid while blacked out with her. I should probably clear that stuff up with her before making a move...I hope I didn't blow it.

[cherrybaby]

Here is my advice. Don't get so drunk with a person you really like. Blacking out? Jeeze, that sounds so irresponsible. You really should try having sober time with her.