Should I hate my girlfriend for telling me she doesn't know what she wants?

[greenday2]

Should I hate my girlfriend for telling me she doesn't know what she wants?

She was sooooo in love with me it was overwhelming how in love with me she was, when we first met 2 years ago, but now that we live together, now she

doesn't know what she wants. She loves me she says, but she doesn't know what the right thing to do is.

 

 

Do I stick it out with her.?

[NEONINK]

Sticking it out with her is always your option. I've been listening to Deepak Chopra's book on tape, Seven Laws of Success, and I think it might help out. You can't fight the laws of the universe. Don't even resist. Unless you didn't something wrong, what can you do. It's not giving up your goal of love, but let the universe handle the details.

 

Please check it out at your local library, it will help you keep your wits about you. However, you sound like you're doing pretty good, and if you decide she's worth it... this might help? who knows... it's about relationship stages, maybe she's just in a down cycle of the exciting rush of adrenaline and is unsure:

 

http://vax.wcsu.edu/hlthsci/romantic.html

[jenny]

um, well, hating her should not really be an option.

 

give her space. let her come to you.

 

xox, j