samsungxoxo Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 I wonder how often does it occur that one (man or women) stay with the one that you gave away your innocence?? It happened to my mother with my dad who was/is her first. With me, the story might repeat only mine is a long distance relationship (more than 2 years so far). Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 I think everyone has a soft spot for that 1st person who you gave it all to. Link to post Share on other sites
technicolor Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 My first is also one of my best friends. We're not together because we both live so far away but yeah, I think it's definitely possible. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I did try to (we were engaged for a time), but it seemed she had other plans. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I think everyone has a soft spot for that 1st person who you gave it all to. Yes. But I prefer to call it quicksand. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Well it's been 2 years for me so far! I mean who can say really, whether you will or will not stay together. For me, i've never been that type of woman or person who feels the need to have loads and loads of sex. I'm not a prudish type of person - I love sex - but I don't really agree with promiscuity. At least not for myself. I believe in sex in relationships. Not sex for sex's sake. And it's not that sex isn't important to me either but I don't know - I tie sex up with loads of other factors such as respect, dignity, expression etc. etc. which I feel is only fully achievable and fulfilling with someone that gets you and loves you. I mean to me sex is a deep and very powerful thing. So to randomly go to a club and have a 5 minute fling with a drunk chav doesn't fit that perception for me I think it can work if you BOTH have that same view of sex. It depends how much sex means to you and what you think is reasonable with regard to sex. I'm not a 'modern' girl in that sense at all. It's nice to have the choice of sexual liberation...but I don't find sleeping around would be liberating for myself personally. That said that doesn't mean I need to end up always with this partner. But I do want sex in relationships, not outside of them. Link to post Share on other sites
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