windows Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 I'm a 16 yr old high school guy who has never ever been in a relationship. I've only ever had a crush on like 2 people ever. My first crush was significant to me but nothing came of it and she left for another school as of... 2 days ago. My current crush is my current problem. Over the last few months, every school day is a repetitive cycle. Goto school, learn little and constantly acknowledge to myself the fact that I just don't have a chance with her. Why? Because her although she says 'I don't have a boyfriend', she always hangs around her go-to-man who has in the past admitted he had a crush on her. She rejected me (nicely) when I asked her to the formal and basically I don't know how to make her happier for more than a span of 30 seconds. Still she is the quirkiest and most likeable girl I know that I feel really treats me equal ( My mannerisms and the fact I'm a twin has earned me some sort of popular yet novelty nickname ). The exams are done and I have nothing in my life to focus on... except for her. I know if I continue this cycle I'll only end up hurting myself. I'm a shy guy and there's no one else out there that I really am interested in. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 It sounds like you could use a hobby to take up some of your time. Try playing a sport at school? Join a club? Play Dungeons & Dragons? These things will help take your mind off of her, and will get you out there to potentially meet another good crush. Link to post Share on other sites
Author windows Posted November 15, 2008 Author Share Posted November 15, 2008 I'm horrible at sports, there aren't exactly any 'clubs' around here and Dungeons&Dragons is non-existent in Australia. BTW what is the Australian equivalent to a 'club'? I might decide to drown myself in a hobby like art for the meantime. Link to post Share on other sites
Rudeger Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 Play World of Warcraft man. It helped me get over the girl that I loved not wanting to be with me (unfortunately it also screwed up any chances I had of meeting other girls cause I was inside all the time lol). I am actually being serious though. It's a good form of escapism and helps by making you think less about how much life sucks. Link to post Share on other sites
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