jinx55 Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 This girl I have been recently seeing at school for about a month now has a boyfriend. I have known her since last year when we met in a class together. We had only been aquantinces until about a month ago. Since then we have been on some dates together and she often spends the night at my place, 3-4 nights a week, which I consider a lot considering she has a boyfriend. Granted I don't consider myself to be any sort of saint here in fact I know what I am doing is wrong... and I have asked her a few times whether she plans to break up with her boyfriend. She tells me yes, but she is scared to. Honestly as far as my feelings are concerned I have seen her with him on a few different occasions now and in some sick way it doesn't bother me at all and I really like this girl. She sends me messages saying I hope I am not hurting you by my actions and I usually just respond you aren't I know what the situation is. My question or advice from you guys is should I ditch her completly, give her a little more time before I do something such as cut her off, or should I give it a shot and see how it plays out over the next couple of months? Since I know of her actions I already would have a lack of trust for her but she says she has been miserable in her relationship for a while now and just doesn't have the guts to break up with him. She said she only cheated because he doesn't show her any affection whatsoever. I feel like I am playing with fire here but at the same time I really like her and I could see a possible future relationship with her. Any advice here will do. Link to post Share on other sites
Konfuzion Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 They is never a good excuse to cheat on someone, and you will probably never trust her. I say move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 is this the same girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Author jinx55 Posted November 17, 2008 Author Share Posted November 17, 2008 no, that is a different girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Well then, just stick to one problem at a time. Link to post Share on other sites
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