dakky316 Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Preface: I have always sucked with the womens.... So I am at uni in my first yea at the ripe old age of 25. Most people are 18/19... We are 6 weeks into the year. The first couple of weeks are a kind of blur involving lots of people and alcohol, and for me some drugs too... One of these people that I meet lives real close like 20 seconds from my house, and we become friends and hang out and stuff. She is 23. I don't know how to describe our relationship: she or I will txt to see what we are up to at various points in the week. We see each other most days. I like the girl. I don't know how much of it is attributed to that 'she pays me attention which makes me like her more' thing in my brain. Either way i want her as more than a friend. I know she doesn't like drugs: me and a friend were making some MDMA bombs at a party and she said ' drugs are for losers' and i said am I a loser and she replied 'no'. Also I play a fair bit of poker and she called me a 'gambler' and doesnt seem to be impressed with that whole thing either.... So I perhaps fumbled about for too long but last thursday (11 days ago) I went out into town with her and some of her housemates. I wanted to make a move but had some fear of rejection (as I really like having her as a friend and I didn't want to **** things up?? That is a whole other subject and I know I should not worry about that: there are so many people here even if i haven't done as great a job as i could have at making friends). Back to the point I got quite a bit drunk as I wanted to make a move and I did and we kissed a bit blah blah and we all caught the bus home and we walked hand on back to hand on back (hope that makes sense) back to her house but nothing happened. The next day I went over and tried to be a bit 'touch-feely' with her, but he body didn't respond. I would say it went more to rejecting physical contact if anything but VERY subtle if it did maybe I am paranoid. And I have seen her a fre times since then and have tried to work on her. I just saw her tonight went round her house, there were a few people there. Others left and we were looking at something on facebook and her friend whose grandfather had just died was online and long story short the friend was going to phone her to 'vent' which was cool by me and I said its fine i'll go and she said "i feel bad" and i just gave her a good peck on the lips and went. I don't know if I am rambling or what but it is very difficult to put this into words,and i have no clue if any of this means anything but I wanted to write it down here anywas.... Basically should I carry on trying with her or go meet other people and leave her alone and see if she comes to me etc or just forget about her but I would like her around as a friend either way. I know some people will probably say talk to her and some people might say just have another crack, but maybe I have left it too long to do the first thing and I am a pussy about making moves and could wait until we get drunk again? Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
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