fromlonelytogreat Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I want to do something different. I have decided that I am NOT going to stay home this weekend and be all sad. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Visit all the touristy places in your city! Have you ever wanted to see the botanical gardens, the zoo, or that special something your city is known for yet you've never made the time to go? Now's the time! Museums, art galleries, your downtown core. When my exh left me, I decided that was the time I should actually visit my own city! It was a great way to get out of the house and I didnt feel so alone because I could people watch all day long. I also took a small digital camera with me so I didnt feel so out of place and the camera helped me stay focused on my surroundings instead of focusing on me. This was 4 years ago and I've never let the camera down since. It's become a huge hobby in my life. Link to post Share on other sites
lazlow99 Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 What are your interests? There must be a club you can join in your local area. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fromlonelytogreat Posted November 19, 2008 Author Share Posted November 19, 2008 What are your interests? There must be a club you can join in your local area. I have no interests. Okay, I lie. I enjoy cars, and geeky things like computers and technology. Link to post Share on other sites
rsobrien Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Strip club Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 I want to do something different. I have decided that I am NOT going to stay home this weekend and be all sad. Excellent! You've made a decision - go check out some local activities, festivals, volunteer etc. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted November 22, 2008 Share Posted November 22, 2008 ....Updates? Link to post Share on other sites
Sears Posted November 22, 2008 Share Posted November 22, 2008 ....Updates? http://www.meetup.com/ Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 Don't tell us, be spontaneous and just do it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author fromlonelytogreat Posted November 29, 2008 Author Share Posted November 29, 2008 I went to the movies by myself for the first time. It felt rather liberating. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleDove Posted November 29, 2008 Share Posted November 29, 2008 Suggestion...or two.. im doing this to get out and meet people, instead of being a freakin hermit..its way too easy and depressing. Ive also had ENOUGH of being sad. Go out on a limb!! do something you wouldnt normally do, like go to the gym, or better yet, join a boot camp, and become friends with people that way...rock climbing...indoors, another great hobbie and way to meet LOTS of people... Im doing a skydiving licence...thats MY thing, and when im out doing that- I dont spare a second thought to the egox!!! (more interested in living when im UP there) thats extreme, but it has put me in amongst like minded people who I mostly click with, have a laugh with...costs a bit, but at the moment, lifes all about spoiling myself and living! I went to some touristy places, climbed the harbour bridge.. and I just felt SO alone. Movies alone isnt too great either. basically im avoiding couples!!!! and now ive found this break up is making me really fit!! Link to post Share on other sites
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