Author georgejungle Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 Don't Worry, I'm over it. I went thru all the old emotions and feelings and everything else the past 2 weeks, but i'm over it. I found closure with this. All the wondering about 'what ever happened' has been put to rest. I never let it ruin the past 10 years, i moved on then, but it's nice to have some closure. I'm thru contacting her and I won't ever again. Thanks to all your advice and comments.... i've realized that, YES, She DID contact me because she regretted leaving things the way they were and that she was probably hoping we could slowly go back and start things up again, since I have enough healthy confidence in myself that, she hasn't found a guy that treated her the way I did. I mean, i was soooo good to her, a total gentleman, fun and exciting and spontaneous. I really loved her while we were together and she took it for granted by breaking it off to experience other guys and have fun while she was young. She blew it, but i'm over it. Trust me, i'm over it. Moving on... Link to post Share on other sites
Freedom Now Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 Good man. Your wife is a lucky woman. Link to post Share on other sites
Author georgejungle Posted December 4, 2008 Author Share Posted December 4, 2008 ????? WELL, although i'm done thinking about all this and have made my mind to not contact this Ex, 11 days later.. ....she sends me another message. maybe she needed time to mull my response over, i have no idea. But she resonded with a "well, i'm sure your a great Dad and Husband, here's my email if you ever need anything or if you just feel like keeping in touch, thanks for being a great man".... On one hand, it pisses me off. It's not cool to do that, to a married person and i'd love to tell her THANKS BUT NO THANKS, but i also don't want to contact her at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Freedom Now Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 She is disrespecting your relationship with your wife by contacting you. And even though her intentions may be pure, she is still disrespecting the relationship you have with your wife. People in our past are there for a reason. And they need to stay there. Walk away and don't look back.... Link to post Share on other sites
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