oh so stupid Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 i cheated on my boyfriend of two years. i'm not even sure why i did it. i think because i was feeling disconnected from him. and when i met this other guy [on the internet, i know big mistake] he made me feel special. we really connected. so i ended up sending him some pictures of myself. i felt so guilty that i had to tell my boyfriend. now he's pissed at me, and for good reason. i know what i did was unforgivable. i know what i did was wrong and i know he has no reason to ever trust me again. so what i'm askign here is, is there any way i could possibly make this up to him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author oh so stupid Posted November 20, 2008 Author Share Posted November 20, 2008 it was just the pictures. they weren't even nude either. i feel so horrible about this Link to post Share on other sites
sTyLeRock Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 not even nude? what were the pics then? bikini shots? even so just sending pics of urself.. yes i would be very hurt if my g/f did that but i wouldn't see that as cheating, i would see it as a voilation of trust, but definatly rebuildable there are MUCH worse things u could of done. Link to post Share on other sites
dangerous007 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Proved to your boyfriend that you will never ever to that same thing again.. By means of first, always tell him were you are, what your doing, ask him to go out for a dinner in a quite and romantic place. Maybe in this advise your boyfriend will give you again a 50% trust. Link to post Share on other sites
jinx55 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Expect him to not trust you for a while, maybe months or even a year. If you are sincerely sorry and don't do it again over time he will forgive you and you can rebuild his trust. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Figure out why you feel so disconnected from him. If you haven't already asked that question, then you need to. If you can't resolve the disconnect between you and him, then don't waste your time trying to get his trust back. As always, distrustful behavior takes centerstage and the real issues get pushed into the background. Both of you need to sit down and talk about what the real issues are between you. Not to justify your behavior, but to figure out what the problems are. Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 I think it went a long way by you being honest and truthful to him about it. I think he will appreciate it that you were honest with him. This will probably save your relationship by telling him. He does not have to worry about you keeping secrets. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyintights Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Oh boy, another "internet affair". It was just a picture. So what! Link to post Share on other sites
OnTheEdge Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 the pictures wasnt the cheating part so forget about them... the cheating was the secret intimacy you shared with the other guy... yea he wont trust u for a while depending on how he feels bout it inside but really its not so bad..he will get over it..tell him it was a mistake and its made u realise u will never do anything like that again theres not much else u can do Link to post Share on other sites
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