13 Days NC and still wondering if he'll go back!

[Tinkerbelll]

Hi Everybody,

I want to share with you all what happened and have some advice.

He is my first love, I felt in love with him when I was 8 yrs old and he was the boyfriend of my schoolmate's sister.

At those time he was 15!

Then of course I had my life, and when I was 17 he finally noticed me and we dated once: we kissed for first time, than he eventually realized that I wasn't for casual sex and he wasn't for commitment.

So I just didn't hear from him anymore.

In September we met again: today I am 30 and he' s 37!!!

We dated for one month and had really a good time..I don't know how to explain it, but I really felt there was so much between us.. I also felt that he was scared of commitment and I just tried not to push him too much.

By the way, things got worst: I got more and more demanding and he just stopped me.

I asked him to quit his single status from myspace and he answered attacking me of being too concerned on what people said! I replied than bitterly that I was going to organize my single life as well.. and GUESS what: he disappeared.

A couple of days after I met him by chance in a bar and confronted him: he sais that I was the one who dumped him (!!!) and that it wasn't just going to work..than he went away.

I texted him 3 times in a row saying that I loved him and that I really think that we could work things out if both of us were willing to do so!

He didn't answer, so I just sent a final text asking him to tell me if it was over and in this case I wouldn't bother him anymore!

Guys..I just wanted him to say that!!!!

But he didn't respond..

So here we are: 13 days of NC.

I am NEVER EVER contacting him again..but I am wondering if we will eventually show up since he never told me things clearly.

[lofi_tokyo]

Honestly, this guy sounds super flakey to me. You may never find out why he kind of fell off the radar.

 

It seems like he kind of drifts in and our of your life. So maybe he'll come back into it, but you're 30, so I suspect by the next time he does you'll be well into a serious, mature and committed relationship by the time he flounders back. So who cares!